am i reading to much into this, or....???
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I need your advice girls, its not about a ba, well kind of. Last year me and my mate agreed that we was all going to ibiza this year for a big girly holiday. Anyway we were really excited about going and planned on booking it round about now, sometime in March. But since my mate has found out im getting a boob job, shes totally gone off the idea of going away with me. My mate work full time and lives with parents so i know its not a money issue. Whenever i mention booking the holiday she says she doesnt really want to go away this year and acts really funny whenever i mention it. I honestly think its because i will have had my boob job by then and shes feeling a little jealous. And i know that my mate has mentioned it to my other friends aswel because yesterday when it got brought up in conversation one of my mates turned round and said " you only want to go on holiday to show your new boobs off" But weve been planning this holiday for about a year now, well before i booked my ba or even mentioned wanting one, the new boobs was just going to be an added bonus not the reason i wanted to go. Does this sound like jealousy to you?? Its really getting me down as i feel like im going to lose my mates over this as i think some of them are jealous that im getting my boobs done and maybe worried that i get more attention than them when we are out, which is why i think my mate has decided to not go away with me. I keep thinking they wont want to go on nights out or anything with me once ive had them done as if theyr being this way now and the one mate in particular who wont even go on holiday with me, then what are they going to be like once ive had them done. Am i reading to much into this, or has anyone else had friends who acted this way once they found out about ba??? Sarah x x xPosted 2 years ago #
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Hiya, I think that is really sad and spiteful of your friends being that way, You are right they probably are really jelous and dont want you to get all the attention on holiday. But you shouldnt give them a second thought, maybe them being this way is part of a game plan to stop you going ahead with the BA. Girls can be very childish and hurtful, if i were you i'd just tell them how nasty they are being and how its making you feel. If they are true friends they should support you through thick and think, if anything they should be happy for you!! Good luck with the BA anyways :o) Im having mine done on 16th April,soooo cant wait.xxPosted 2 years ago #
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it defo sounds like jealousy 2 me ... but if they r true friends they will get over it, maybe they want u 2 back down an cancel just 2 make them feel better ... but that isn't bein a true friend! hopefully they will come round. good luck ! x x xPosted 2 years ago #
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tell them to get f ******d and go with somebody else!! i cant stand jealous friends!! thats just pathetic of them! pure jealousy! XPosted 2 years ago #
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yea unfortunately it does sound like a bit of jealousy might be going on. Ive been really lucky, all my friends have been really supportive and want to see my tits more then they want to see me lol. but it might not be jealousy it might just be that she doesnt want to go on hol anymore? Try talking to her? xxPosted 2 years ago #
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hia hun - yeeh sounds like a liccle green eyed monster - iv had the same of my girlies, theres 6 of us going to Ibiza this summer and me and another girl have had our boobies done and the rest of them are like grrrrrr haha and wont come bikini shopping with us haha! but at least they openly admit it and we all laugh and joke about it
id have a word... friends are there too support you through anything, and if it is down to jelously then as her friend you need to support her too because she might not be feeling very confident in herself
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'friends' like that won't b around 4eva... ur boobs will!! sounds like they are definatly jealous, in a way i feel a bit sorry for her though because she must have insecurities of her own and she probly doesnt want to be the ugly friend lol. good luck xxPosted 2 years ago #
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most of my friends are being amazing about it, so supportive and kind offering to look after me when its done, but i've had friends like yours in the past, sometimes its only until something bad or unusual happens it makes you see who your friends really are... my advice is try talking to them nicely and be up front about how you're feeling, if they're still being cows, i know it sounds shit, but get yourself some new friends. better ones. you'll be much happier when you do. xPosted 2 years ago #
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awww sarah, does sound to me like they are very jealous, im sorry there not supporting you. Me and my friend are also planning a holiday, and when i told her about me having my boobs done, she was really excited, coz she already got naturally big boobs(lucky bitch lol) i just think that maybe u need to try and approach the topic with her, the end of the day if ur friends are happy for you getting more confidence then there not friends you want, i wouldnt want them anyway. aww shame im not having my ba on the 5th april, we could have been booby buddies!! lol keep ur chin up hun, remember ur doing this for you, no one else, and if thy cant accept you with bigger better boobs then them then there not worth it here if you need to talk keep smiling hun
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defo jealousy hun, with out a doubt I have experienced quite a bit since mine, even with blokes/ex's u deserve better hun, u do, try and go with someone else if you can hun and put u first xxxxPosted 2 years ago #
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