Feeling a bit down

I’m really happy with the size of my boobs but absolutely gutted that I’ve got zero cleavage, they’re sooo far apart 🙁 I’m 5 weeks po on Monday so doubt they’ll get any better now 🙁 waaaaa

I feel the same !:( I’m months post op now and so unhappy with the outcome :(:( I wish I was advised to have an uplift xx

Hey hun there still time yet for them to settle I heard it can take up to a year 🙂

Hey babe have you spoke to your PC about how you feel or anything ? Xxx

No I haven’t, I’ve got my 6 week appointment on Monday so will speak to them about it then.

There’s a couple of things, I think my right is bigger. Originally I had an 80cc implant in my left on NHS due to assymetry (nothing in my right) this time he put 325cc in right and 350 in left, I can’t help but think if I had the 400cc put in there they would be the same size?

My gap is massive, everyone else I’ve seen closed up or was pretty much gone after they had the op.

It’s so depressing cause you see everyone elses and they’re perfect! xx

Hey hun, they should advise you on your consultation that the implants won’t affect your natural gap, it’ll stay the same as before the implants xx

Hi Hun, sometimes all you need is a little bit of reassurance. What looks like a big gap to you may not seem big to someone else, you always notice the negatives and criticise things more when they’re on your own body, when you see them every day and when you have a problem with them. I’m sure this will make them look more natural if anything, I hope you don’t mind the add xx

Hi hun its still early days they should come together.. mine were still changing at 6 months po.. hang in there x

Hi Sara, thanks for accepting. I’ve just had a look at your photos and I think they look absolutely fabulous, what size are you now? I can see your cleavage lines pretty evidently so you do have cleavage! I have to bare in mind that your arms are raised when taking photos pulling your breast apart slightly so when they’re unelivated again your cleavage will be more evident again. They look so natural and suit your body shape extremely well xx

Ahh thank you Beth, it’s so difficult as you do end up comparing yourself to everyone else.

I’ll get my boyfriend to take another photo next weekend as then I will be 6 weeks PO almost 7.

Suppose I’ve just got to be patient and hopefully by summer they’ll be slightly closer

xx

Hun they are beautiful, I was looking at your photos before having mine done thinking I’d be happy if mine look like yours! I think this all boobie journey is such an emotional roller coaster and we all go through stages of feeling happy and then finding things we’re not keen on. I haven’t seen mine yet cause of the strapping but I had quite a gap before and I know it’ll stay the same but as long as I have boobs I can live with that and there are so many beautiful bras that’ll make them look nice and give us more cleavage! Chin up and be positive, they will change so much over the next few months xxx

Hey hun I had 800cc and I still have a gap . I am now 4 months PO and I can say they are still changing up untill quite recently I wasnt really able to push them togther but now I can and I deffo have more cleavagexxx

Sara I hope you dont mind the add, im having mine done on the 14th and i currently have no clevage and appear quite far apart. Im worried that this would only become more obvious xx

Ah thank you’ve all been really nice and have definitely made me feel better. Maybe once they get softer they’ll get closer together? They don’t feel hard but I can’t push them in or anything yet they just kind of sit there aha. It’s probably cause I stare at them loads too, gives me more time to see the things I don’t think are ‘perfect’ xx

Hi, hope you don’t mind the add hun. I had a large gap before surgery, currently on day 3 and I feel that the gap is even wider, starting to worry about it xx

Thanks for accepting my add! I had a look at your photos and they look amazing! I’m a very similar size/shape to yours so hope mine turn out as good as yours! What size are you now? : ) x

Oh thank you, I’m definitely feeling better about them now. 32DD now 🙂 xx

Just had a look at your piccys and they look fab. If mine end up like that I’ll be really pleased. What size implants did you have? Xx

oh hun im so sorry to hear u are feeling down about your results, hope u don’t mind the add, id say definatly contact ur pc and make clear ur concerns when u go for ur six week check up x

Its so hard to not compare your boobs to other girls isnt it, I see girls at 7 days PO who look so much bigger than I do or who have a much better shape/cleavage and it really gets me down thinking they will never change. But remember they are changing every day and will only improve. You are your own worst critic and what you may see is a massive gap while what others see looking at your pics is normal results that we’d all be happy with 🙂 xx

Hey Hun I’ve just added you hope u don’t mind. I had 450cc partials and Remember looking down my strapping thinking wow they look so far apart but as they softened and settled the gap closed up a little, not totally – they look more natural with a gap – but in a month or so when you’re in bras and they fluff out etc you will feel much better xx

Hey sweetie I’m taking it you had unders ? If that’s the case they will stay quite fair apart as the muscle is keeping them apart as its incased in muscle they won’t really drop that far down they will sit high up my nat dollys had clavgeage and l lost it to unders now they are over this time I’ve got back . Pls don’t strees out over them they look lovely and fab shape the 400cc wouldn’t have made difference because of the muscle xx

I’ve got marcellino too. Not much about him though

I think they look amazing Sara, very aesthetic and I’m pretty sure they’ll look amazing in a good bra once fully healed!

Hi Sara, did you have a wide gap before you had your BA? I’m exactly the same there’s a large gap between by boobs too. I’m having to have new implants and have asked what I need to do to get the gap closed. The surgeon has recommended going for mod plus profiles and also placing them a cm over but says he can’t close the gap any more than that. X

Hey girls sorry I haven’t been online much recently. I had 325cc hp unders and I’m now a 32DD. I’m happy with them now and just gotta face the fact that the gap is just me. I had quite a large gap before and they couldn’t have put the implants any closer as otherwise my nipples would be facing different directions. A good bra makes the gap close up so overall happy with them. When I look at myself naked I think woah they’re massive so I’m glad I didn’t go bigger. Thanks for all being really nice though! Xx

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Hey Sara! Hope you don’t mind the add I’m having my op on 20th in fitzroy xx

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