Feeling depressed and hate my boobs ?just need to moan Started by: lucy

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  • lucy 12
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    I’m day 7 PO and hating my boobs ? they are nowhere near as big as I thought they would be, shape is horrid and they just seem to be getting smaller… I thought I was over the pain and now it seems to have come back, my backache is getting worse not better, i went to get a sports bra and am in 36D but they are tiny everyone keeps saying they will change but it’s getting me down as I feel like iv gone through this for nothing…. did anyone else feel like this?? It’s awful just want to cry ?

    Josie 9
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    Lucy I feel exactly the same I’m 6days po and far from impressed with the results tbh I don’t think they look any bigger and everyone just keeps saying they need to drop, I’m the same the pain I’ve gone through seriously doesn’t feel worth it and I’ve been very emotional about it today, I really hope they do change xx

    lucy 12
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    It’s horrible isn’t it…. it’s kind of nice to know I’m not alone, I keep seeing all these loving post about their boobs straight away and everyone’s look amazing I’m getting boob envy, I really wanted to share my pic’s after having the straping off but iv taken pictures and they look even worse on them can’t bring myself to post them! I know everyone says they will drop and change in time but this feels like the most painful wait doesn’t it? What size did you have? From a 32/34B had 350cc unders HP I wish I’d have said sod the risk of rippling I want 400! Xx

    Harriet 88
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    Hey Lucy, I know you probably know this and you can’t help how you feel, but 7 days post op is so so so so so so early on. Honestly, they’re gonna change so much, I’m sure you’ll love them soon. Plus unders get bigger! I’m also feeling very impatient cause I want mine to drop now lol but I know they wont for a while. Just hang in there, it’ll be worth it soon xx

    Josie 9
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    Hya Lucy I was a 36b/empty c I also had 350cl Hp but overs, and it’s so disheartening seeing everyone’s after photos looking so good. Fingers crossed we see some positive changes soon I really hope so because it’s been an expensive, very painful emotional experience and il be Devastated if I’m not happy with the results in the end xx

    hollie 22
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    Sorry to hear your not happy,just remember your only 1 week post op. They’ve got loads of changing to do still,try and be patient. I’m sure they will look amazig once there finally healed and you wouldn’t want your surgeon to have given you massive implants knowing they would be covered in stretch marks and you hating them xx

    lucy 12
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    Thanks girls patience has never been my strong point, I never expected to be this emotional tbh! I think because my surgeon described mine as being “conical” I think he meant slightly tubular tbh because they still look pointy to me and I thought they might be corrected at least a little bit! I know it’s a waiting game just didn’t expect to be so disappointed with the size of them.either! Josie iv tried accepting your friend request but when I click on it it says pending friend request but when I open it, it says there’s nothing there and when I click on you it just says already requested haven’t a clue what it’s doing xx

    Josie 9
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    Try add me luv or unfriend n refriend me lol, n my surgeon told me exactly same Lucy and mine r really pointy ? I’m hoping they drop round and bigger lol xx

    lucy 12
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    Josie,you cancel it from your end and then I will try adding you it won’t let me do anything from my end just says pending request…. did he? It’s awful isn’t it I feel like he’s just made my horrible pointy boobs just Slightly bigger and pointing I find it so embarrassing doesn’t help having huge bloody nipples either ? lol xx

    Josie 9
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    Try now luv xx

    lucy 12
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    Have you sent you a request ? xx

    Jade 19
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    Why is it so difficult to attach a photo on this site! ?

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    Jade 19
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    I hope these photos will give you some piece of mind. 350cc is a great size! ????

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    Jade 19
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    I also went and tried on a dress in which I wasn’t able to wear a bra! As you can see, my boobs look rather big! ?
    I found that the sports bras push your boobs in. They make you look smaller than you actually are! Xx

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    lucy 12
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    Thanks jade yours look amazing! It’s weird before the surgery was booked I would say I don’t want to be too big, don’t want them too noticeable and leading up to the surgery and after I felt I had chosen too small even though I picked the biggest the surgeon would give me, I just need to try get into my head that they are going to change shape and drop and the size is what I wanted realistically and that they are better then my horrible boobs I did have and sprts bras are def not flattering ha xx

    Jenna 19
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    I felt exactly the same all the way through my recovery. Actually depressed everytime I looked at them wishing I’d went with the biggest size I was offered! I have 365 unders which is probably about the same as you. I was convinced I wanted them done again! I got measured yesterday at 5 weeks PO and couldn’t believe it when she said I was an E cup! I wanted to kiss the woman?I was worried they were going to be a C! Everyone said they looked big but in my eyes I just couldn’t see it & wanted more. Now that I know they are an E I’m seeing them in a different light & once I had them in a proper bra they look so much bigger! I know it’s hard but try not to stress about it I’m sure you’ll feel differently towards the end of recovery xx

    Jess 146
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    I got 450cc unders and loved them for the 2nd and 3rd week but now I’m nearly 4 weeks and swelling has gone down and I feel like they’re too small ? My boyfriend says they’re perfect but I wish they were even bigger lol. I got the biggest my surgeon would let me get though so I can’t really complain. Just might get revision surgery in a few years ? xx

    lucy 12
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    Thanks girls it’s nice to know I wasn’t the only one feeling like this, it’s weird I read about people getting boob greed and I thought as long as I had some I’d be happy…. but yet here it is haha. I suppose patience is the key but just waiting for them to hopefully change shape is harder than I first thought! Yours both looks great on your profile pics and I can’t wait til I can get a normal bra on mine are still so solid and i don’t dare to even try push them together yet haha xx

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    Don’t let it get you down babe they do change I thought mine looked great at 7 days and hated them by 3 weeks it’s just such a journey I’ve posted this before but look at the difference here, hang in there ? Xxxx

    lucy 12
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    The difference is crazy in them pictures but they look amazing! I keep taking pictures if my boobs every day and sit and compare ? my bf thinks I’m obsessed… and I’d have to agree! Ha xx

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