Is it just me?

So I’m paying of the rest of my opp tomorrow wanted this for about 7years and I’m finally in a good place were I’m able to do it but the last few days I just keep doubting myself thinking should I be doing this feel like I’m being selfish spending so much on myself :/

Hey hun, I know that lots of girls feel like this when they are about to pay the final balance. You have to remember why you have wanted this for so long and remind yourself of the benefits once you have recovered! 🙂 im sure you are going to love your new additions xx

Thanks I have heard a few girls say they felt the same I think wen u spend that amount on anything you always feel like that well I do anyway lol xx

I felt the same to an extent but then I thought I’ve been saving for this every month for a long time for a reason! I don’t know about you but I cut down on my spending sprees and just saved so I could just pay it all before I have surgery and now it’s all done I can’t wait to go shopping haha xx

I thought the same I have a daughter and the guilt is mad
I keep thinking I’m putting myself through an unnecessary op and spending a good chunk of hard saved money

Guess it’s natural
But I’m 31 and have wanted this for ages so know it’s the right thing to do. Xx

I used to feel so guilty and think of all the people that need to spend this money did health reasons . But then I though – I am spending this money for my mental health as I allways suffered when someone made comment about my nose or boobs. I remember deleting so many photos with precious moments just because my nose ruined everything. So for Me this was healing! Xxx

I was exactly the same Hun but tbh it’s not everyday you get the chance to do it, you’re young so why not? You’re allowed to be selfish whilst you’re young!! Haha xx

Plus if it’s something you’re really not happy with then if will so be worth it!! I’m 3days post op now and even though the pain is sometimes unbearable I know it will be worth it!xx

No it’s definitely not just you hun I’m 34 and ive wanted this since I’ve been 21 but always put it of with the selfish thing being the main reasons, I have 2 daughters and feel the same about the money and the op, but I know I am 100% ready for this now and at the end of the day I work hard to provide for my children and give them everything they want so now it’s time for me to have something I want. Don’t be so hard on yourself you only get one life hun and your worth it

I keep feeling the exact same but then remember ive wanted it for soo long and it will change my life for the better plus i go to work everyday n work bloody hard…you only live once so make the most of it xx

Thanks for all your replies i hav just found out it was payed for yesterday by my boyfriend so theirs no point me feeling guilty now just going to try look forward to it xx

Bf paid for your boob job….deary me.

Money is there to be spent hun, and your obviously in a good financial state to even consider something like this, you could put the money into your home a holiday or spend it on gifts and what ever for a loved one, but the overwhelming lifetime satisfaction you will get knowing you put the money within yourself so to speak, on something that made you miserable and now makes you super happy and confident its priceless xxx

@bigben actually i payed for it myself just from my boyfriends account not that I think it’s any of your business thanks!

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