Help and advise please anyone?!? Started by: Erinn

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  • Erinn
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    Lovely ladies..

    I’m having my ba in March and I am all set to go but I’m also only 19, I have days where I wake up questioning my op then others where I can’t wait to get to high gate. But am I to young for surgery, I use to be nicknamed mini Jordan by my mum but then I got sick and lost all my weight including my assets, I am so self conscious with my boobs I went to Italy with a friend and had to wear chicken fillets in the sea. It gets me down so much, so I’m in two minds either feel like shit for another couple of years and have them done and take a massive risk, it is surgery after all. But I feel my shape isn’t proportion and I never take my bra off when, well you know 😉 just makes me feel so concious. Help and comforting ladies?

    xoxo

    Kirsty
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    Hey doll!
    I was exactualy the same! I was worried i was to young ( im 20 ). I know i am going to need a few more ops in the future as my body will change, but for me personaly i was willing to take that. Everyone is different and you need too do what you feel is right for you! Noone else can realy tell you if its the right time or not, i am now just over 5 weeks post op and its the best thing ive ever done, im so much more confident 🙂 xx

    Lauren
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    I am also only 19 darling and my BA is in 22 days! 😀 I know a girl who had them done at age 18 who years down the line is still very happy 🙂 the fact is that if you have done your research, can afford it, know it’d make a difference to your life in many ways for all the right reasons then it’s pointless waiting a couple of years! Make yourself happier now, there’s a reason why you have to be 16 years or older to have it done, not 22 or over or something like that. All of us will need re ops eventually it’s just a fact 🙂 don’t be worried you’re too young, cause you’re not, but you are too young to be this unhappy with a part of your body that you can change! 🙂 I hope that helped xx

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    Hiya
    I am 19 too and I’ve also got my BA in March! What date is yours? 🙂
    But I am exactly the same, worrying but excited at the same time! I just think if it’s something which will make you happy and give you confidence then why not go for it 🙂 i’m sure everything will be fine. I try not to think too much about the surgery just think of the end result and happiness of buying new bra’s! Lol xx

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    Hey Babes – I had 470cc – Not too far off 495cc, As per your other post.
    And I think your feelings are normal for any age honey – I wish I had mine done at 19!
    Ha Ha would have saved a fortune on padded bra’s, Chicken Fillets and countless years of having to buy outfits to hide small boobs!

    These are the years you should be feeling your best – Don’t let age stand in the way honey xxxx

    Jess 1
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    Agreed!! What’s the point of waiting a few years? If you’re sure it’s what you want then go for it!
    I’m 25 and if I could have afforded it earlier I would have, I think of all the holidays I could have an ace bikini bod for but I was a student and just wasn’t an option…you will love them xxx

    stacey
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    Im 21 nearly 22 n have a little boy thats nearly 3 im even returning to work this year so I can get the finiase to pay for it 🙁 I dont want to wait go for it wish I could afford it at 19 x

    Erinn
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    Thank you so much for all the help and advise ladies, my sister always says to me okay imagine you don’t have it done and you do wait you will regret not allowing yourself the chance to feel better and more confident. Theres a lot of judgmental people out there and if I’m honest I’m not even prepared to tell anyone except my family about my new assets because its for me no-one else, some of you have said how you wished you could of afforded it and done it before and that makes me feel confident that if i have the money and the time to do something to make myself feel better why should I put it off. I fully understand that I will have to have another op in the future so I’m am prepared for that.

    I think my fear is also the look, because i have anxiety I’m also very specific on what i like and I’m worried if they don’t turn out they way i would like them to that it will play on my mind, I’m having Dr Singh girls and trust him completely, i think I’m letting my pre op jitters get the best of me. Thank you so much all of you for you help and advise its nice to have comforting words from ladies in the exact same position and have been through the process.

    Much love

    P.S @Victoria my ba is on the 12th of March at highgate in london 🙂

    Charlotte -1
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    @Erinn, I am booked in for the 12th March at high gate too…. Who are you having? I am booked in with Mr Singh. So nervous and excited at the same time….

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    I am also on the 12th of March with Mr Singh! 🙂 what cc are you getting Charlotte? I’m having 375cc, so excitiing! X

    Teg
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    I had mine done 3 months after my 18th birthday I’m now 2 months post op and couldnt be happier! I had the same doubts as you before it’s normal but once you’ve done it you won’t regret it 🙂 x x

    Charlotte -1
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    Hi victoria. I am aiming for 300cc bit meeting with Mr Singh on Monday so will let you know more then

    Erinn
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    Hey girls @charlotte and @victoria I’ll see you at highgate girls were all on the same dates haha 🙂 can’t wait just need to get this bloody finance out the way. @teg how did you sort your payment if you don’t mind me asking ? I’m trying to sort my finance xx

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    Hiya not long now… Only like another 34 days 😀 got my pre-op on 11th Feb, can’t wait until it’s done! X

    India
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    @brennan95 hiya im 19 aswell and booked for 6th april 🙂 I know were young but at the end of the day I know im gonna still feel like this whether im 19 or 29 so might aswell make myself more confident now, that’s how I see it 🙂 good luck xx

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