I know this has been posted a few times now but it hasn’t been seen by everyone…
I don’t mean to be awful but if you’re new to the forum PLEASE send a message before adding people! There are personal pictures on people’s profiles and there could be anyone on here.
If you have no profile picture, no activity and haven’t messaged me before adding me, I won’t accept the request.
I have no problem with adds and people looking at my pictures but I won’t accept just anyone.
Sounds harsh now I’ve read it back and I hope it doesn’t come across like that but just some advice!!
Totally agree, well said flower xox
@alex91 12 friend requests this morning and only 1 message!!xxx
@LAURAWRIGHT i deffo agree with you its personnel pics at the end of the day if they dont have the audasity to ask to add you why should you excet them, when i put my pics up i def want to be asked before i start excepting people.
do you mind if i add you haha
Does anyone know how you can edit your profile? Mine is really vague where I initially egistered quickly just to have a look, but I can’t find how to edit it anywhere!!! 🙁 xx
Not ideal, some girls are quite private so everyone should be respectful 🙂 xox
Don’t Worry, have found it now!!! x
@ashleighk28 exactly, could be anyone signing up on here just to have a look at pictures so I won’t accept people with no information/message! And no problem!xx
@laurenross10 in the top right corner where your profile picture is, if you click on that it says edit profile I think?xx
@alex91 very true! Hopefully this will get seen for the people that don’t know xxx
Thank you!! x
I can’t even send requests when I do people arnt getting them so I don’t have many friends and for some reason it says I’m not active even though I’m on every day. Xx
So agree! I’m more than happy to share my pics with pre op girls as it helped me massively but I find it so rude if I get a request (you have to go on to my profile and it says that I won’t accept without a msg so I really don’t understand why it’s so difficult to do) and no message or anything. I can understand when you’re new to the forum but most of the time I get them from someone who has posted on the forum and/or has public messaged other girls and asked if it’s ok but I get nothing!
Rant over, hope you’re all good girlies! Xxx
@kikij87 yeah same! I wouldn’t have been as confident about my desicion without looking at other pictures and talking to other girls, but I don’t want absolutely ANYBODY looking at mine. Just a bit of common courtesy would be nice. Takes 2 minutes to send a quick message!xxx
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No Laura I will do though thank you. The girls I talk to often told me so I cancelled my request so they could ‘re add me xx
How do you send a direct message xx
You can only send a public message untill you are friends with a person
9 friend requests… zero messages or mentions!
Thank you very much for this post Laura. I’ve put a request on hold from someone who seems to only have added just me. They have no picture, no activity and no other friends. There is no way in hell I’m accepting them. They are on the forum everyday but don’t seem to have added anybody else apart from me. Am just watching them to see what they do next. It is possibly some pervert lurking around, wanting to see some boobies. To all you perverts lurking around on this forum, go visit a porn site!!!
I’ve always messaged before adding and have a profile picture too I post and comment on threads but only a handful of girls ever accept my add request or reply ! I guess I must look like a dirty perv!! …
@nmyftjd you’ll have to add MYA moderator to be able to message the properly, otherwise you can only public message them xx
@sharksaub00bage no problem! It needed to be said again. I keep getting loads of requests with no picture etc and no message and I have no idea who is behind the account! If someone is genuine it takes two seconds to send a quick message. Yeah I’ve done the same. There’s lots that I’ve just left until I get a message or until there is some activity at least!x
@rosy853 really? I have no idea why if you’ve sent a message!x
Bumping back up seems as I just got another 4…
Well said chick i agree but i dont think it will ever stop x
@amanda25 no neither do I! I’m
Just not going to accept them if there’s no message. All I can do I suppose. Just thought the more that see the post the better! 🙂 xx
Couldn’t agree more! I have like 3 people add me each day with no message or anything ! Sometimes even no pictures ! X
@bec1234 it’s a bit annoying isn’t it! I have 12 requests from yesterday that ive ignored and at least half of them have no picture! Xx
Laura someone just tried to add me that had no pics, no friends, and no activity…rejected 🙂 no message either xox
@alex91 it’s silly really isn’t it! I don’t know why they expect to be accepted if they have nothing at all on their profile! I’m
Debating just rejecting them all as well!xxx
Yeah it’s daft! I would reject them and if they start talking to you can always add you again. I just worry about who these random people really are, they might not even be girls! It’s weird xox
@alex91 yeah I’m going to. Nothing stopping them messaging/re-adding!
Yeah that’s what I keep thinking too! Could be a creepy old man or something!!xxx
Yeah probably the best thing to do flower. Eee that’s an awful thought isn’t it! This forum is supposed to be for information and support not weirdos haha xox
@alex91 yeah definitely! It is, it’s quite scary really. Happens a lot now doesn’t it. Definitely won’t be taking any chances and accepting random people!!xxx
Definitely not 🙂 keep your pics as private as possible, they are very personal after all. Xox
@alex91 I just rejected the majority of them. Definitely! I always set them to the friends only option! Don’t want random people going through them!!xxx
Better to be safe than sorry love xox
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