New start…. Started by: Mitch

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  • Mitch 39
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    Feel like my partner feels the need to put me down more and more every day…..I don’t need his nasty views on me when I have my own xx

    Cath 75
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    Ah no, nobody should have to feel like this at the hands of their partner. Especially like you say when you have insecurities of your own to deal with.. I know it’s easier said than done but if that was me he would be getting kicked to the curb and I’d be looking for someone who appreciates me and doesn’t feel the need to put me down. Maybe he is feeling insecure about himself and his way of dealing with it is to put you down… although this does not excuse that sort of behaviour. I hope your ok Hun xxx

    Mitch 39
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    Thank you cath x he supported me at first then turned nasty but I should of known it was coming because I had this just before my ba…. why he feels the need to do it I will never know but maybe because I am so understanding with his needs and fault’s xxx

    Clara 8
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    Maybe he’s just worried you will be getting more attention from guys once you’ve had it done so feels insecure about it. He should be building you up not putting you down. Try tell him how he’s making you feel. Hope you sort it out! Xx

    Cath 75
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    Maybe try telling him how he makes you feel.
    I’m sure they think we are going to change because we have had our boobs done. My friends and my mum keep saying to me ‘stop covering them up’ or my mum says ‘look at you still trying to hide them’ lol I guess the insecurities we have don’t just disappear over night but I sure as hell have more confidence in myself… I’d defo sit down and talk to him. He might not even realise what he is doing xx

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