Nosey Parkers

Hi I’ve just read through a few posts on here and I have got to say it is true as soon as you post any pictures about anything you get inundated with friend requests. No messages just add’s just so that they can nosey at your pictures. They don’t even comment when they have looked at them. Ladies how insensitive are you? Where r your manners ? Some of the ladies on here are going through a difficult time worrying about infections, rippling etc and are looking for reassurance from other members who have possibly experienced the same things. I have no problems with people adding me especially if their circumstances are similar to mine. I understand people are looking for advice but be courteous ask before you add or send a message with the friend request . From now on I will not be excepting any further friend requests unless one you ask first or two you send a message with the request . Other than that day 8 alls good xxx

Haha yes so true!!!

I’m not adding any more people for that reason. Lucky I’ve had no major problems but I have a lot of pictures. And like u say as soon as u say you have got the pictures there wam everyone wants to see xx

Yes they do xx

@Emma I completely agree with you and yes have also added people (may I add) that have had/having the same surgeon especially as it is also a vital part of research and making sure that I am comfortable with my choices also seeing other people’s outcomes is quite uplifting I think i would only add people who comment on forums and are sent to b chatting and asking questions x

I dont add people now as i’m post op so I only added people pre op for advise. I haven’t come on here to look at peoples pictures but to speak with people in the same position as me and gain some advice 🙂

Could not agree more Emma, very rude isn’t it x

If you want to gather info Why not have a conversation first x comment on a post if your interested in what that person Is going though x you wouldn’t add someone you don’t know on Facebook etc would you though x

True I’m not saying I go around adding ppl I alway ask message first or have a convo in a forum I’m just thinking people might b doing that

Could have written this. I had 100- yes 100 friend requests after I posted my problems. Nosey bitches just wanted a good gawp. Makes you feel like a freak.

Everytime I put a pic on I have 10 requests only accept people who have a photo and will be deleting people who are never on or havnt added for a reason don’t mind people with similar stats or similar situation as this forum has helped me loads x

I agree Nikki. Had loads yesterday after I posted my pics of my allergic reaction to strapping. I don’t mind if people are going through something similar I’m more than happy for anyone to look at my pics if they feel its beneficial but I clearly posted saying I’m only accepting adds if people message me and had so many with not a single private message it was untrue! Grrrr

Totally agree! That’s why sadly I’ve not posted any pics to my profile despite having a few of you lovely ladies message me and ask how my surgery went and wanted to see pics xxx

There must be something wrong with me…I can’t wait for people to look at mine ha ha.had my first topless spray tan the other day.i couldn’t wait!lol.seriously ….I’m now 3 months post op and after a huge scare with infection I’m very happy .xxx

Here here Emma….exactly the point I was making! Glad u making good recovery x

And Julie just cause you have AMaZINg boobs …there is no need to show of lol !

Thank u ladies x hope you are all having good recoveries and are happy with you lot xxx I have no probs with genuine people who want advice chat etc but the rest my goodness what is wrong with people we r not in the bloody circus x

Ha ha Nicole xxx

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