Really don't like them Started by: LornaG

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  • LornaG 85
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    I’m 6 weeks tomorrow and been really stressed with them. Sometimes I think they are ok and look good when in a bra but the last few days after getting measured I am really regretting my decision for Breast augmentation.
    There is something wrong with the left one and has been for weeks .
    I’m seeing my surgeon on Thursday and I just want them out. I went too big and thought they Would be perfect and round but they are so far from what I ever expected. I am upset with them all the time but looking at them this morning has really made the final decisionfor me. Im going to ask for them out. They are not right and I am devastated with them 🙁

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    Hollie 30
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    It looks like double bubble 🙁

    Amelia 15
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    can i ask who did them ? x

    Lou 96
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    Sorry you’re not happy with them x
    I wouldn’t worry about the number they are when you measure, that’s just the shape of implants – they do measure bigger.

    Have you compared your pre op pics to your post op?, ultimately if you prefer your post op Boobs and they didn’t make you unhappy then maybe it’s the right decision to have them out.

    But think back to why you had your BA in the first place? Maybe that will help.
    How long did it take you to decide to have a BA? Years/months/weeks?
    You’ve only had boobs 6 weeks……..whereas if you had no boobs for years……..and were unhappy with them?

    Try looking on RS – there are stories there of people who have considered it (I think it’s called ex plant?!) it’s interesting to read and see photos of their stories and the decisions behind the operation.

    Sending you hugs though xx

    LornaG 85
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    I wanted them because I was a 34A barley there cup. I wanted my boobs done for years ! Reasearched it all and my surgeon. I’m always the person nothing goes right for. I wish I had never had it done. They are big and bulky and look ridiculous on me. When I am naked I hate them. That line has been there since the start and my nurse said to me last week its fine it’s fine it will drop and fluff. I just can’t see it getting better. I have put my self through hell for 6 weeks and it’s totally not been worth it. I was so stupid. I wish I never had it done xx

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    I think the size really suits u they look fab. I can see the 1 underneath that looks different I would of thought in time it would settle? Gutted u feel this way 🙁

    What size and profile did u have hun ?? And what surgeon done the augmentation? Xxx

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    Oh @lornag i really feel for you! Try and stay calm because if you stress yourself hun it’ll make you feel worse. Wait until you see your surgeon. Ive seen a few girls on here that have had their impants replaced for free because they were not happy. MYA wont want anything ruining their rep and they’ll hopefully be more helpful than they have been. I have no idea on ‘double bubble’ or what it is so i can’t give my opinion but something definitely doesn’t look right. Did your surgeon say the size you wanted to go was a bad idea or anything? I think they’re a great size for you personally! Xx

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    Who done them xx

    Vicky*★. 231
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    Hi Lorna darling don’t put yourself down, this must be such a horrible feeling for you. But just think to yourself you wanted this op for so long and you did all your research etc so you definately did the right thing for yourself as it’s what you wanted at the time. I think you may have double bubble in your left boob but mya should totally fix this. There sometimes are complications with surgery and it can be fixed! I think they’re a lovely size and they look fab just the boob on your left clearly isn’t right so if it doesn’t go away on the drop and fluff process they should totally fix this for free. Many irks have had revision surgery on this forum I think you should read up about it and put yourself at ease. X really hope things work out for you Lorna but just remember as hard as it is the final result can take up to a year because they’re always changing x some people’s process are quicker than others x really hope you find your happiness soon xxxxxxx

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    Some girls*

    LornaG 85
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    I’m seeing my surgeon Thursday. I just hate the whole idea of them now I feel sick. I went way to big i was 34A now I’m a 30E! No way did I want that. I had 325cc and wish I had gone at least 100cc smaller.
    I just hate them end of. I want them out and I’m shitting my self that they won’t do it or I’ll have to pay a fortune again!
    I haven’t slept for days and I can’t eat I feel sick all the time. I have no confidence at all. I went shopping yesterday and felt like I had two footballs on my chest. I regret it all so much and it’s making me so ill I don’t know what to do 🙁

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    Hi Lorna I think they look great 🙂 my surgery is on the 27th of March im barely an A cup too…. I’m also worried I won’t like mine but at the same time I’m sooooooo excited. I’m hoping for 350cc under the muscle. Maybe your just having post op blues hope you feel better soon ????

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    Hi Lorna, just wanted to say your not alone in feeling this way, I had a modest implant 265cc however at 5 weeks I’m not happy, feel as though what I feared the most is what I have & will end up with, very round false far apart breasts, this I don’t think is any fault of my surgeon it is unfortunately the anatomy of my breasts, but I do in some respect blame the organisation as you get 10 mins with the surgeon (I did meet them twice) I really feel I wasn’t listened too as if I’d of known my end result would be this I wouldn’t of had surgery, life lesson I’m afraid… an expensive one. Although the forum is fantastic & supportive it can also be distressing when your experience feels so far from anyone else’s, be strong & remember you was unhappy with your breasts before & you changed it, your still not happy but you can change it again it is not permanent, what I have learned is that I never considered myself as having boobs I was embarrassed & humiliated by them but now I have to change my outlook if/ when I have them removedI do have womanly boobs no matter there size & shape, they should not define us, from seeing your pictures you are beautiful girl your health & mental wellbeing is what is important.

    Beth 59
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    Hi Lorna, please try and not let it get you down! It will all work out in the end, from then pictures I wouldn’t even say they look that bad. You are only 6 weeks you’ve still got a lot of “dropping and fluffing” still to do. Stop panicking try and chill out and let time heal. Maybe give them abit more time Hun. Try and stay positive. Honestly your making them out to be worse than what they are.
    Chin up lovely xx

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    So nice how everyone is so supportive on the forum I think we all under estimate what a big thing having the surgery is its not just having the implants in its dealing with it after and all the emotions. I’m glad I joined as I think we all need some help. Stay strong Lorna they honestly look amazing x

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    To anonymous- what size are you now please? I am 32a looking at getting 265cc hoping to become no bigger than C cup…xx

    LornaG 85
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    Thank you to everyone for the support and encouragement. I have low self esteem and no confidence and I did this to feel sexy and finally like a woman and I can’t adjust to it. The one that isn’t right is really freaking me out so its. It helping.
    I just don’t know what to do. Xxx

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    Hi Lorna I think there a lovely size and really suit your body, I do agree with the others that something doesn’t look quite right with that boob, maybe it is double bubble, have a talk with your surgeon Thursday and hopefully he can reassure you but as an outsider I honestly think they look really nice! Not to big and not to small x

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    Hey lorna I know it’s all easier said than done when everyone’s saying don’t worry. I don’t think they look too big at all they look such a natural siez. When your feeling down about them look back at the times you were happy, iv seen a lot of your journey on here and look how happy you looked when you wore that fitted top! And you looked amazing! Imagine the clothes you couldn’t wear before but you can wear them now. And remember the reason you did this in the first place. It’s a huge thing to get used to going from small boobs to big boobs and the whole journey is an emotional rollercoaster. I felt alone when I had the seroma which has slowed my recovery down dramatically. Your never alone in this journey. Hope it goes well when you see your surgeon, don’t make any rash decisions as you need to give your body and mind to adjust to the op. Big hugs xxxxx

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    Hi hun. Hope u r ok. I have looked into your stats nd u r more or less the same as me. I don’t think they r too big at all. U did choose the ryt siZe. Chin up ! Double Bubble can b fixed and there is so many ways to sort it out plus there is a big chance your implant dropps into the ryt position. Can you feel your implant at the very bottom near the new crease or is this second bubble empty?

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    Hi Lorna,

    Its so horrible to see you so upset, sending a massive hug! I think they look beautiful though, hopefully the surgeon will listen to your feelings when you go back!! You’re beautiful and try not to feel down xxx

    LornaG 85
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    Thank you to everyone for the support it means so much. I’m sorry to rant and get upset but Iv been on pins for weeks. Xxx

    Jess 150
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    Don’t be silly you don’t need to be sorry! That’s what the forum is for and everyone’s here for you 🙂 xxx

    Jess 150
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    Don’t be silly you don’t need to be sorry! That’s what the forum is for and everyone’s here for you 🙂 xxx

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    Lorna I think they look amazing, the size doesn’t look to big on you! It’s horrible for anyone to feel this way as it’s such a big change to go through. I hope things get sorted for you xx

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    I think they look really good. The size I wouldn’t say looks too big hope you get sorted good luck!! Xx

    LornaG 85
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    I wish I could see it girls xxx

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    Have they said it’s double bubble Lorna? They have changed and come on so nicely its such a shame. I think we all have an image in our heads and when it doesn’t look like it it is so gutting as it’s not cheap! Hopefully there is another solution to make you happy instead of taking them out, fingers crossed and keep smiling xxxx

    LornaG 85
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    I will see my surgeon on Thursdays.
    I had a message from my PC saying they won’t re op at this stage unless it was an emergency. I really feel like I want them out im pulling my hair out! The fact that there is something wrong with the one is making me 100% worse. I keep thinking why did I do this in the first place 🙁 xxx

    LornaG 85
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    Plus the right breast will not drop at all. 🙁 they are odd. I’m 6 weeks today. Feel worse than ever!

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    Beth 59
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    Give it time Hun!!! 6 weeks isn’t exactly long xx

    Anonymous
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    Hey hun I think they look stunning the size is so natural and they don’t look massive or fake at all! The slight crease u had in the other pic seems to have gone or at least it’s not visible from what I can see. They wait to re op due to scar tissue building up. So unless it’s an emergency they leave it. I’m sure it will be resolved at ur appointment. Tbh there’s nothing u can really do but rest and try not to stress urself as there’s nothing u can physically do about it. U have ur appointment which is great and have spoken to everyone so far at the surgery to assist u. So until u get a decision ut worrying urself over something out of ur control.

    Tbh I don’t think ur alone in having bad days with ur boobs I think most girls go through it but not everyone is able to admit it so openly. At six weeks mine had not fully fluffed and dropped so with the permission of my surgeon I wore my breast band while I slept for a few days (about 5 I think) and it really helped to sort them.

    Also to start off to where u are now is a massive difference and u may just be still getting used to the extra weight of the implants too. But they really look natural. Try to list the positives u have so far since the op especially since u have been so down about it all. It may not have turned out how u expected so far but ur only six weeks and they are still changing. Mine have changed so much since week 6-12 already they’re fuller and feel really soft.

    Fx

    Maggie 13
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    Lorna u r only 6 weeks and it takes more than 6 weeks for them to settle … ur right one needs more time and I m sure once it drops it will look normal… they don’t look bad at all … u really need to chill as u make yourself really stressed out and that doesn’t help with the whole recovery process …

    LornaG 85
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    thank you all.
    Whats freaking me out with the size is this ‘football’ look in a bra. They are round and huge in a bra and I can’t look at them.
    I just can’t take to them. I know its early days but if they get any bigger Ill be beside my self.
    The 30E measurement shocked the shit out of me. Ill struggle with finding Bras.
    I try and see all sides. Im just such a worrier. If they look any ‘fuller’ I really really wont like it. I just can’t see it girls.
    As soon as they will let me Ill ask for them out. Im going to Barbados in June. Im devastated. xxx

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    Marks and Spencer, bravissimo, Freya plus boux avenue plus figleaves online all stock at least 30 back

    I think ur boobs are just bit slow on the process so wht u expected at wk 6 u may not see til wk 9-12

    They will be a lot softer once fully dropped and in the correct bra (not push up) shouldn’t look at round.

    If u get a re op u could see about tear drop if they’re suitable for ur anatomy but they tend to come up larger with just a small cc so beat to stick to the guidance of ur surgeon and not ask for bigger.
    They’re less round and more natural shaped

    I asked for bigger and ended up 5 cup sizes larger instead of 2/3

    Ur more likely to find a bra in a 30 back and u can go up on the back down in a cup depending on the bra fit so ur sister size would be 32 DD which u can find in most highstreet stores!!!

    I’m a 28 FF which is massively rare and a definite struggle 🙂

    LornaG 85
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    Thank you lovely. I asked for 325 naively – went from 34A to 30E!!
    Sometimes they look ok but when the bras came on the scene – oh my god 🙁
    Plus the shadow under the one boob is really upsetting.
    I hope it is just a case of them being slow xxx

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    Hun I went against Lindas suggestion by 25cc and ended up FF I too was madly shocked and taken aback so I honestly understand! I’ve bought two bras (Freya plunge fancies range) and they make them look smaller when I’m wearing tight fitted tops. I wear a crop top sometimes but where there is no wore it makes them look huge and my gap closes right up. I really believe when ur in the correct size wired bra ur boobs look smaller because they are supported. When on a crop top I think the boobs just spread out and do their own thing and look bigger!

    Trust me u will find some little tricks to make them look smaller. Wearing a bigger back size isn’t always good especially longterm as you may not get full support but it may make u feel better mentally atm to just try 32 DD and see how the fit is. I was given a 30 G at one point and was like omfg I was just thinking this is nuts.

    I personally don’t like wearing my wired bras daily as the boning is keeping my boobs more apart and defining the gap! But as soon as I sleep with my super tight Nike crop top the gap closes up or when I wear a crop during the day. Hope that helps fx

    LornaG 85
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    I need to speak to my surgeon on Thursday and just get all my worries and fears off my chest.
    I genuilny think I made a mistake getting them done or should have only had about 200cc. I don’t like these melons. In a bra seriously they are like footballs 🙁 xxx

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    Like this 🙁

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    Hun they’re still sitting high honestly it’ll get better plus next time try on a full lace bra with no closed fabric that is has bit more coverage on the front. Grannified but they I think really help the shape and bring them closer together. I reckon wait til ur around 9 weeks as ur slightly behind and try and book urself into bravissimo and have someone help u try on some different style bras as some tend to spread them more so than others fx

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    Lorna, I just messaged you but I noticed you said you measured an E? So did I! A 30E and I thought I’d be a C or D! But remember fake boobs always measure more and yours haven’t dropped yet so they are sitting funny in bras. Please don’t get too down, I think the stress is making your healing slower too. I’m 8WPO now but I was actually told by the nurse she’s not seen someone heal so fast, so I think I’m the unusual one. In your newer pics I can’t see the double bubble anymore? Anyway, let us know how you get on Thurs xx

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    Hiya Hun

    Honestly they look really amazing @LORNA they really suit you & they don’t look massive on your frame! Yours still seem to be REALLY high up still so please don’t worry, I’m sure you will love them in a few more weeks once everything starts to settle properly! Sounds like your putting yourself under a lot of stress/worry which will slow your healing… easier said than do but try not to hunni x

    Anonymous
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    I’m seeing my surgeon Thursday too at the Manchester clinic, I hope they can sort something for you and give you answers as it’s not dropped the same, I bet you’d love them if they was the same etc 🙁 , mine have dropped & fluffed the same time I’ve been quite lucky, just wish they were bigger! 🙁 hope it gets sorted for you xxx

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    Hey Lorna I know exactly how you feel! I’m 8WPO and mine haven’t dropped at all, they look like little stuck on melons, nothing like the nice natural boobs I’d always wanted. Honestly I think yours look really natural and lovely on your frame. But it’s what you think is best and what you’ll feel most confident with. I’m seeing my nurse on Wednesday for a check up and I’m going to tell her how I’m not happy with how they are, and I don’t think any amount of waiting will make them look better, I feel like they’ve put the wrong sized profile in for me. I really hope you get it sorted and feel confident in your own skin soon, you deserve to feel happy with your boobs, even though they look lovely as they are now. Big hugs xx

    LornaG 85
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    Thanks everyone. I am completely all over the place. Iv looked at them so much I can’t look anymore. Xxx

    LornaG 85
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    Do I *have* to wear underwire bras after Breast Augmentation? I don’t like the look of mine in underwire. I prefer the braletts…they look much MUCH better…Xxx

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