Am I having second thaughts? Started by: Kayleigh

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    Hi girls!

    I’m booked in with dr traynor on the 6th aug! I’ve paid my deposit etc and have got my pre op 25th June. I have wanted to get my boobs done for so many years and now that I have actually booked in I keep having second thaughts and something in the back of my head telling me not to do it!!! I don’t know why I’m thinking like this because it’s something I have always wanted!! I have also heard that because of the tablets I am currently on that I mightn’t be able to go ahead with surgery anyway :/ I won’t find this out until my pre op I just don’t know what to do!!!

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    Nicola
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    I feel abit like that too I’ve wanted this for ages but now that it’s booked its real and happening and worrying I shouldn’t get it done. I’m not happy with the way they are now and worried that everything that could go wrong will happen to me. 6th august seems so far away but I will be glad when it’s here and have them done. Might see you there on 6th. Xx

    Nicola
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    Fingers crossed you can get them done. What happens if you can’t do you get your money back? Xx

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    Honestly girls you have nothing to worry about! You are in good professional hands with people that know exactly what they are doing. It’s the best thing I have ever done! I was worries at first thinking am I making the right decision? Yes ! Yes! Makes you feel complete and feel like a girl not a boy lol. Beat decision you will make I promise!! Just do your research feel confident with your size etc. JUST GO FOR IT. Any questions feel free to ask xx

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    Completely agree with Michaela!! If i knew before what i know now i wouldnt have been so worried! You wake up looking and feeling amazing – remember one thing….

    ‘Dont let a little fear get in the way of years of happiness’ – its so right! 1000000% worth it. Promise 🙂 xxxx

    Laura 13
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    I had feelings like this about 2 weeks before surgery but so glad ive fibally done it, best thing ever!

    natasha
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    I was exsacley the same, loads of people were saying neg things to me in the end I started doubting my self too. I went ahead with it as it was payed for. I’m just over 3 weeks post op now I’ve impressed with what I’ve got and how things went, couldn’t have asked for more. My he only thing getting me down is the sports bras I’ve never wore one in my life, lol and the having to wear clothes to cover up is hard too, but hopefull 3 more weeks and I can go bk into normal bras then I can start feeling myself xxxx

    natalie
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    Beaut just remember your reasons in the first place,negative energy around you isnt doing you any favours,youve been through the bf dilemma now something else has got in the way,maybe your just feeling the negative vibes..fingers crossed for your pre op and hopefully that goes well then i bet youll be feeling excited with nerves aswell but then you know itsdeffo your time 🙂 keep that chin up im sure whatever happens itll be for a reason xx

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    Thanks girls!!! I really want them doing every time I come on here it get excited! But there’s just something in my mind I don’t know what tho!!! Thanks for the advice xxxx

    Nicole 1
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    It’s an emotional roller coaster and just because it’s cosmetic and you are paying for it does not mean things can’t go wrong! It’s the best thing I have ever done but I have issues, I had a bad reactions to medications after operation which was pretty scary. It is a major operation, thee are risks to ga but ultimately you will get looked after amazingly and everyone will do their best for you…just remember nothing in life is risk free….we don’t think about the risk of getting I the car but they are there. Good luck and just go into with your eyes open!

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    Thank you Nicole xxxx

    Laura
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    Yea I was nervous and thinking should I put the money towards a mortgage it so glad I’ve done it now xx

    Zena
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    Awh don’t worry you’re not alone in having those thoughts…I had those right up until I went into theatre lool…sometimes an odd thought would come in my head to just do a runner but ultimately I knew no I’ve wanted this for a few years and know I will not be happy until it’s done and that’s what counts…the ultimate happiness you will hopefully receive for years to come. Even after the op I had these did I do the right thing feelings here and there especially when reading some posts etc but that’s natural and ultimately I still feel happy! I can try on clothes and feel so good about myself and that’s something I couldn’t do before the op.

    As Michaela said, do your research but feel confident with your size and that’s what’s important. Also, know the risks involved and know there will be a recovery process which is tough at times but promise ya it gets easier 🙂

    Rachael
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    Its natural to have doubts, just remember why you want this and go for it! what abs are you on hun? xx

    Rachael
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    Thanks everyone, I do want them doing but il make my decision after my pre op because I don’t wanna be all excited and then get told I can’t get them done. I’m on propananol Rachael and citroplam for panic attacks? Xxxx

    Kirsty 4
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    i feel like this too! starting to think do i actually need them … my boobs look ok in a bra and clothes….awful without or in a bikini etc….keep thinking it’d b cheaper to buy decent bra’s etc! i think its just the nerves and the worry putting me off!! xxx

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    I a agree Kirsty xxx

    Kirsty 4
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    Where’s your pre-op at? Mine is 25th June too…at newcastle! Xx

    Megan
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    I feel exactly the same but my ops next fri!!!! I am nervous and in to minds. And haves so many questions

    How long should ion drive for.
    Is 400cc too big for me?
    Why the surgeon has chose overs not unders?
    How am I going to feel after?
    Will I regret it?
    Will there be complications?
    Will they sag?
    Can I breast feed?

    Don’t know y I’m soooo scared!! Xx

    Kirsty 4
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    I’d speak to your PC again Megan for reassurance! You can breast feed with a BA, it’s just the uplift that you can’t b/f after I think! Overs/unders is to do with how much breast tissue you have….the others I can’t answer lol but I’m sure you’ll b fine….altho I shud take my own advice wen I sag don’t worry and font be scared ha ha xx

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    My pre ops at liverpool, girls I’ve woke up today so excited and can’t wait to have big boobs!? It’s like I’m bipolar!!! Emotional roller coaster!!!! Xxxx

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    I to take a lot of meds and had to have my op under sedation and local anesthetic I didn’t remember any of the op and because of this u can get up and about faster due to not having general anesthetic . I was in and out in less that 3 hours 🙂

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    ooh thats good i love that!! im excited today xxx

    Kirsty 4
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    Haha I’ve just been in new look looking at the bikinis and underwear getting all giddy and excited lol…. I’m like you…we must have boobie bipolar! Can’t wait! Xxx

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    Hahaha we’re boobie bipolar I love it!!! Xxxx

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