Any one feel guilty? :(

I’m having ba in a few weeks but starting to feel guilty as have kids and a lot of money etc,
I’ve wanted this for so long but I’m choosing to make myself be in pain does anyone else feel like this? X

I did! But I wanted it done before I met my husband and had my daughter so he always knew! It was a horrible experience last year that made me decide to have it done and I’m so glad I did! I’ve actually done something for ME! You’ll be fine! The excitement will kick in soon x

Hey Aimee..

Im in the same boat as you.. I’ve got 3 munchkins and I cant stop thinking that maybe im being selfish with the cost and risks involved.
BUT as mums we sacrifice so much for our kids, so if this is something that will help us be happier then why not? and for me this is something I’ve wanted for so long to boost my self confidence. Ive been with my fiance for 12 years since having my 3rd baby i don’t get changed infront of him incase he sees my non existent boobs. The result of breastfeeding has left them a 34a with some extra skin.

Malisha xx

Thanks girls its just a lot to think about!
Am getting exited now I’m the same cant get undressed in front of husband I hide when I’m in the bath lol had enough xx

Aimee my hubby used to moan about me! We’d get ready for bed, I’d be taking my make up off etc n when I came out I’d turn the light out before getting undressed n he’d be like, what are you doing that for? It just turned into habit and hopefully I’ll be whapping them out for him? Lol xx

Everyone has feelings of guilt I reckon xx

I don’t have children ladies so maybe tis is easier for me to say but yu all work very hard and no doubt none of your children go without and I’m sure this has been the same since birth, when was the last time you put yourself for some thing that meant this much to you? You have no reason to be guilty you deserve to feel confident and happy In your own body! Your relationships shouldn’t have to be strained due to our insecurities that ca be fixed by this. Don’t feel guilty ladies our feelings matter just as much as the children’s! Xx

I am the same girls..i have two children and as like u guys feel guilty for doing this.. But we have sacrifised ourselves and putting ourselves first for such a long time and its time we put ourselves first. We would never as mothers let our children go without and they will also see the benefit of happy mums..so win win all round.x

I feel bad too as i have a child and i feel i should of taken my family on a slap up holiday instead of being in massive pain , plus i had to go out today and buy some new clothes as i need to cover up to take my liitle 1 to school tomorrow and no-body knows about my opp ,
I know exactly what your feeling so i have booked a weeks holiday in August to take everyone away ,lol
Plus i can’t play with my little boy and i feel bad for that too,

Love Nat xx

Rachel I’m exactly the same lol I’m hoping I will get some confidence after op! Thanks everyone feel a bit better now 🙂

And me Rachel, I nearly backed out last week so made sure I paid half so I know I won’t get my money back! I’m over thinking the whole thing constantly in my mind! I’ve got a little one and think I should be buying him stuff and my partner not me! Especially as its only me that’s getting something out if it no one else! 🙂 joys of being caring and a good mum I suppose it was a really hard decision

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