are any of your family NOT supportive ? Started by: Danni

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  • Danni
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    Hi ladies

    I have my Vaser in 20 days, I told my mum i was inquiring about it and i decided to go ahead with it. Since ive booked it shes been so jealous and unsupportive

    I just wondered if anyone else has been through similar things?

    She actually said when i booked it ” You bitch your getting cosmetic surgery” My husband was there and he was shocked for words!
    Im glad i have him for support and i feel mya are looking after me

    But everyone ive told are jealous and i dont understand, ive worked hard for this and even had to take out a loan, they could surely do the same if they wanted something?!

    I wouldnt mind so much with my mum but shes stick thin

    Just needed a rant lol x

    Chanel
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    Ah bab i havent told many people coz im quite a private person like that anyway but few best mates no n shared the excitement etc i dont really av a great relationship with my mam so she nos but i no i wont get any offer ov help after or words of encouragement she just acts like she hasnt heard wot im sayin if i did speak to her bout it im used to her ways and sumtyms negative people just have to b stepped away from or accept that they r the way they r and get on with your life knowing that u r happy with ur decisions even if they cant share that happiness with u, it aint nice n i hear ya tho bab! x

    Danni
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    I havent told too many people too, Like yourself im quite a private person but i thought i could at least tell close family

    Yeah mines doing that now, if i talk about it, she totally ignores it. Its crazy that if it was the other way around i would do nothing more than make sure shes ok and look after her. Im only 23 so if it was the other way around i would feel protective

    Im just glad to hear its not just me, Thank you sweetie

    Your right though, I just have to hold my head up high and count my lucky stars my husband has took 2 weeks off to look after me and i know ill be happy after

    xx

    Chanel
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    Yea its hurtful when people r like that i have just stepped away now n i dont want it to b that way ov corse but sumtyms sum people r only making u feel worse about urself and ive accepted she is the way she is n yea at least u have your husband bab xx

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