Hi, I have a 18 month old, and my fella took 2 weeks off to help me….but in all honesty I was pottering around the house at day 4 as I wanted to adapt for when he went back to work and I’d be on my own….Having your mom to help would be a good idea even if she was around as a ‘just in case’ lol….Things like driving I found reverse, 3rd and 5th a little strange (could feel my muscle tensing on implant) so I waited till 2 weeks before I started to drive long distance (40 miles is how far my mom lives from me) My advice is unless you absolutely feel like you want to be in bed then do so but I found it really difficult to relax and not do anything, as long as your not overdoing it you’ll be fine and 2bh your body will let you no your capabilities :)…..They say Overs look the most natural this will be overruled by the unders club as you can get just a natural look with those to 😉 but really if you have very little tissue I wouldn’t advise you had overs as its at higher risk of rippling. But this would be discussed with you by your PS as he will no best…:) xx