Bore off!

Just been for a walk with my boyfriend and the topic of me getting my boobs fine came up. He said I’m not guna have a lot of friends when I’m getting them done, he said he will come with me but he’s not guna lie and support me with something he feels so stringy against!!! I said I hate looking at my boobs and when I get a shower I feel sick, his reply was only you see them in the shower!!! Yes maybe it is and that’s exactly why im getting them done to feel better about myself!!!!! Let’s all stick together sisters xxx

Amen !!! Stupid guys have no clue but when it comes to problems with there parts they soon feel our pain xx

Yep ur getting it dun for you so stuff everyone else.

You need to just keep explaining that its something you’ve wanted for ages and how much you really want it, its something that could seriously improve your self confidence and happiness. after a while he’ll probably even forget they’re not real, my ex once said “I don’t want a wife with fake boobs” haha… I just thought it was pathetic and he was seriously insecure. Especially by trying to put me down!.. It’s your decision and your decision alone! Xx

He should love you for who you are and accept if this is going to make you happy. He should get over it . Maybe he might think cause u got fake titS other guys would want you which is a load of rubbish as ur doing it to make u happy not for anyone else . I know men do get funny over this sorta stuff. Luckily my bf was fine with me getting them done. He said I should and out the idea in my head because he always use to see me and how upset I got when I looked in he mirror at them.

This is happening to me too. My boyfriend says “but one of the reasons I love you is because you’re so naturally beautiful” blah blah. He says to me “if we ever have a daughter, you can’t ever tell her you have them done because I wouldn’t let my daughter get them done” and he is concerned I won’t be able to breast feed in the future and also his mum passed away from breast cancer and he says “but some people have to have surgery on their breast for medical reasons and you want to CHOOSE to go through surgery just to get your boobs done?” which makes me feel sooo guilty but I can’t help the way I feel about my body, when I stand to the side in the mirror I just have to look away as I think it looks weird and not attractive. xx

I’ve wanted mine done way before meeting my fella & he was really against me having them done! Once I had our son & decided I was stopping breastfeeding him, I told my fella every day how happy I would be to have them done! I’ve also payed for all of it myself, think he’s now more excited than me & really supportive! Just keep mentioning it, as a odd comment here & there 🙂 xxx

Isabella it doesn’t affect breast feeding I asked the surgeon. I don’t have kids yet but when I do I would definitely breast feed. So that’s all fine

Oh i couldnt imagine feeling that way well i kind of did at first but it soon changed.. my husband aint a boobie man hes a bum man.. but hes been surprisingly so supportive.. he was saying you want 600cc no way thats ridiculous.. then when he came with me to see the sizers on he agreed that they will look good.. and what touched me is.. he said amanda now i think about it.. u have given me 5 beautiful children.. this is the least u deserve.. i was like woah now he understands how my boobs have vanished from pregnancy.. u know what girls chin up do whats best for u.. subtle hints and convo about the new boobs helps.. thats what i did.. plus my hubbys main worry is something going wrong.. although we are going through it they are 2 in a way i think they get scared and stuff xx

You aren’t doing it for him, it’s all for you! He should support you. It’s understandable him feeling as though you don’t need to improve yourself but at the same time him seeing you excited and happy about your new boobies should make him happier too!
Go for it sweetie xxx

Yeah Jamie, I have told him that lol he seemed shocked at how much research I’ve actually done lol. x

Bloody hell some of these men are such dick heads. My fiance saved up for my boobs as he saw how much they affected me. He didn’t kind my saggy little acorns but saw how much I wanted them so bought me some! I think you should just fuck him off as there’s better men out there x

Thanks everyone there totally for me so he’s just guna have to accept it!! Hsha I’m so excited!!! Nikki your boobs are amaze xx

It’s for you and I’ll make you feel better so do it, best thing I ever done! Maybe he’s getting insecure or something x

Guys get so insecure! Even if they don’t admit it they think another guy is involved somewhere. They think your getting them done to get someone better, just reassure him and tell him the reasons why. It’ sound bad but my boyfriend is so against them we’ve had huge arguments about them however he did support me through recovery and was amazing. But you’ll never change their opinion on them I realised this when my boyfriend blurted out they were horrible and disgusting at a party, just as I thought he was accepting it. There just boobs in a relationship they don’t have to define you and your boyfriend. Get them done to make yourself feel better but try not mention them too much to him. Your always going to disagree on something’s xxxx

I’m having exactly the same problem no-one I’ve told I’m considering it has been supportive especially my fiance! It’s really reassuring to know that other people get the same reaction because whenever I’ve read patient stories I feel like they say their partners were so supportive!

Ha ha tell it like it is Nikki! Love it!

Haha nicole I speak sense 😉 x

@Jamie Leanne that’s such a mean and disrespectful thing to say I hope you told him where the door was men sorry I mean boys are so insensitive

Well I walked out of the party, he soon came with his tail between his legs begging me not to leave and apologising endlessly. I have accepted his apology this time, as he was so amazing through my recovery. As soon as he gets on the vodka he’s a nightmare! They just don’t seem to get how much this op means to all us girls, he’s really struggled with me changing and getting more confidence though. Just hope nothing else happens now. I love my new boobs and whatever he says won’t change that xxx

Some boys can be so bitchy and jealous – worse than girls sometimes! They seem to hate it when us girls get confidence and feel good about ourselves. Do whatever makes you happy and ignore all negative comments 🙂 xx

my boyfriend is amazing hes paying for a fair bit of my surgery jes always told me he got with me for the person i was he didnt care if i had surgery or not but wen i said im deffo having it done he said that it will just add to his attraction to me x
plus the smile it will put on my face and the good it will bring means alot more to him than the boobs xx u have us all to talk toaybe we should orginize a meet up for people who need boobie friends xx

I’ve had some arguments about this to kinda, not about me getting them done but the whole (me being obsessed with boobies ) lol I do want to talk about it a bit with him just for reassurance really but I’m shot down from the start so now I come on here (thank goodness for this forum)
My thinking is…if I’m happy the whole family will be happy maybe not at first but very soon after.

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