Confused!! :/ Started by: Anonymous

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  • Anonymous
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    Ok so I am really worried now 🙁
    have asked a few people what they think
    i did the whole so my friend is thinking of having
    her boobs done story and asked people what they think.
    My friends said they thiink girls who get it done only get them
    done because they are vain and a few guys I know said they wouldn’t
    touch a girl with fake boobs as they are too “obvious”
    so now I am really in 2 mins what to do :/ as tbf I find it hard
    to get a man as it is an ont wanna make it worse :'(
    What do I do?
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    crissap
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    U should do it for yourself and no1 else , if ur doing it for other ppl’s pleasure then dont bother only do it if its what u want

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    Awww i feel for you 🙁 Some people dont agree with cosmetic surgery, i was lucky cos my friends are quite open minded! It almost annoys me that people think girls do it for other people . . . £4000 is a lot of money to spend if its not something you want.
    Honestly dont listen to other peoples opinions because your not doing it for them. If you want to do anything then do it 🙂 theres always people telling you not to but who cares!
    As for the guy think . . . most glamour models have fake book and im sure they wouldnt turn any of them down ;D haha! plus if you have a natural sized implant then guys wouldnt even know 🙂
    goodluck 🙂 xx

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    Don’t listen to them. It’s your body and your decision. I only told a handful of people before I did it for exactly the same reason…I am telling my other friends and family on Wednesday. They can’t try and put me off now. I honestly don’t think that there is a person out there that wouldn’t want to change something about themselves if they could. Just do what you think is right for u…I’m so glad I went thru with it. Not 1 regret at all. Good luck xxx

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    Agree with everyone above, it has to be for you! Who cares what anyone else thinks? At the end of the day they’re probably just jealous, who wouldn’t want a pair of fantastic boobs!!!! Don’t let anyone make you feel like you don’t deserve what you want! 🙂 xxxx

    Stephanie -1
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    Screw your friends it’s what do you want if you aren’t sure in yourself then maybe think about it for a bit longer, but if you want to do it and it’s just other people’s opinions putting you off then go for it.

    Also you don’t need to go very large if that is what is worrying you just go to an appropriate size, take me as an example
    I’ve gone from nothing to 340cc and I love it, and it looks completely on proportion just take your time and get what you want 😉 one bloke I told said I was lying I was 5 days post op at work and he didn’t believe I had a boob job, as he said they were not big enough 😉

    Anonymous
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    Thanks ladies you’re always so helpful 🙂
    The problem I have had is I always
    worry about what other people think when I
    really shouldn’t.
    I do want them one and one way or another I am guna
    do it! sick of always doing things to please others.
    Xx

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    I’m like that romani, I care too much bout what others think when really I shudnt, although it was a totally dif thing when I got my boobs done I did it for me, i was so Down about them I knew I had to do it. Ppl have this image of false boobs…like Jordan boobs huuuge, when this just isn’t the case most people like us have them just normal sized preportionate to our bodys. I go out and because there not humongous things stuck there I get compliments from men and even girls, a girl come upto me other week and said can I just say your boobs are amazing. Even my cousin who alwTs said don’t do it fake boobs r awful loved them n said I want them. Ppl have too much of a false image of them, and if your friends really know you then theyd know ur not doing it cause u love yourself….only shallow people think that xxxx

    Anonymous
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    Ppl like that r just small minded it’s not for others it’s so Ur happy with your body eg what u wear bikinis! No more padded bras hell strapless dresses that’s the reason I’m booked for my ba 1st feb after a lot of thinking what others think I’m doing what I want, my partner wasn’t kean at first but he’s slowly coming round in understanding it’s not for the fake big boobs its to replace what I had before to kids. I strongly advice not to tell many people then u don’t have to listen to there negative views. Do a lot of research keep looking on hear its brilliant for when your in doubt! Good luck 🙂

    minisha -1
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    Its so hard when people that you are close to are saying the opposite to what you want but something like surgery really has to be YOUR choice. There must be a reason why you are considering it so think about what you feel will make YOU happy and confident. Its not your friends choice and they are probs just jealous and want the same thing lol
    As for men, if a guy you like doesnt like you just because you have implants then they really arent worth your time. Good luck and go with what your gut instict feels xxx

    Anonymous
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    Thanks Minisha and all you other girlies
    I know I am being silly but cant help but worry
    will book consult soon and let u know how I get on 🙂
    XX

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