did everyone tell their family/friends about getting their breast enlargement? Started by: Ellie

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  • Ellie 279
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    I don’t really know how to tell people. The only ones who know are my best friend, partner, mum and sister. Im guessing its going to be so obvious once i have them done as I’m a 32aa so everyones gunna notice straight away I’m thinking.. Just wondering if you girls told people or just had them done and let people see after then told them? i haven’t even told my dad or partners parents lol but i don’t wanna get them done and be too shy to say then end up covering them up haha…xx

    Rebekah 33
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    I’ve only told the females in my family and my best friend, they were all very understanding, helpful and encouraging. Hoping my dad and my husbands family don’t notice!! Probably a bit naive thinking that, but we’ll see. I always wore push up bras anyway, so hoping because of that they won’t realise it is actually boob instead of just padding haha. Don’t know what I’ll say if someone out right asks me if I’ve had it done x

    Laura 4
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    I’ve told the majority of my family and friends and they’ve all been really supportive. They know it’s a part of my body I’ve always been unhappy with and not an overnight decision. If you tell the females they tend to tell the males for you 🙂 xxx

    Harriet 58
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    I had my op on Tuesday and have told my friends and of course my partner knows but I’ve told none of my family!! I’m kind of the same in hoping that they won’t notice! I used to wear very padded bras because I had pretty bad asymmetry so everyone thought I had big boobs already! I kind of did in a way as one breast was a D but the smaller one was a B/C! The only thing I think that will give it away is wearing clothes without a bra and bikinis with no padding as I think now my boobs are probably going to look amazing and perky and big all on their own lol?
    I guess I’ll just have to cross that bridge when it comes to it!
    I didn’t want to tell many people as I didn’t want to be judged for having a “boob job” as I had my surgery for very personal reasons as my breasts were completely different. I didn’t go through this just to have fake boobs or bigger boobs ( no disrespect to those that do ) but for me it was much more of a personal and emotional issue.
    I don’t really feel that with the general attitude towards cosmetic surgery these days that everyone understand that and I think most would just see me as a confident young girl that just made up a sob story and got her tits done! I know I shouldn’t care what others think but I guess I do. Xx

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    Everyone in my family knows and my partners parents know. The ladies in my office at work and my best friend also know, as I need their support in not lifting heavy things after the op.

    I stressed about telling my dad but he wasn’t fazed at all, he sort of knee I would get it done one day as I have always been really insecure about my boobs and cried to him when I was younger x

    Carmen 35
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    Same with me – I’ve told my best mates and my partner. My mum has known I have wanted them done for a long time. If people ask me once I’ve had them done then I will tell them. It’s not cos I want big boobs it’s more for me to feel more in proportion. Anyway as long as it makes you happy that’s the main thing!! X

    Hannah Fitz 48
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    The only person I’ve told is my partner, I haven’t told anyone else as my family are the type of people to not understand that it’s for me and it’s going to make me feel better in myself. I live in Preston and the rest of my family and my partners family live in Birmingham So I’m just gonna have it done and if they ask when i see them next I’ll tell them but if they don’t then I won’t lol xx maybe wear some big hoodies around them when I go down haha xx

    Jessica 55
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    Everyone in my family know also my partners family. As I’m the one that runs around like a mad women with the kids I think they would have noticed the change in my behaviour when I’m taking it easy.

    I’ve always been very open with my dad and he is all for ‘if something makes you feel better do it’. So that’s great.

    It’s the mums at my sons school that I’m sure will something to say. Very opinionated let’s say! But who cares – doesn’t everyone want to be happy in themselves and their appearance.

    Can’t wait for February 29th!!

    Sarah 7
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    I’ve told everyone who will listen about mine aha. No shame.

    Toni 7
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    Hey I’m booked in also on the 29th February at Preston with Dr Mounir 🙂

    Leanne 3
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    I’m totally the same! I think it’s obvious to my family that I’m self conscious in every way possible but I’ve never mentioned anything to do with my boobs or wanting this done, so I’m thinking how the hell do I just bring up the conversation? I’ve only told my boyfriend I want it done and he’s supportive as he knows it will give me confidence. As for grandparents, I know they would NOT be happy but I don’t really care. I’m also worrying about people noticing too, as it will be so obvious once I get it done! Ahh, I think telling people is the scariest part for me! ? haha. Good luck! xxx

    Anonymous
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    I haven’t actually told anyone apart from my other half. I’m 7 weeks post op and the weather is cold so I’ve been pretty much covered up. I’m not saying anything as my family wouldn’t understand in a million years why I’ve done this as they are dead against surgery out of choice. Go with your heart and what you want to do……. Good luck x

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