Feeling really down :( Started by: Tyler

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  • Tyler 42
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    I’m looking at everyone else’s progress photos and mine don’t seem to be changing at all, I currently hate the shape of mine, mines like an oblong shape and everyone else’s are proper rounding out, even girls who had their op days after mine, and to top it off the bruising on the boob that’s oblong shaped seems to be getting worse, so that’s starting to make me think ive got the start of hematoma 🙁 I just don’t know what to do 🙁 I know I shouldn’t but I’m starting to feel regret coming on 🙁 x

    kelly p 33
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    See hun
    Unders take such a long time to heal
    Don’t be dishearten
    I’ve just come back and mine lookquite small
    But I guess its the. Uncle compressing them

    Thibk it’s normal for us all to feel different emotions
    Xx

    Hayley 64
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    @tylerjade21 Have you spoken to the nurse about it hun? It might just be that yours are taking a bit longer to adjust. Please try not to worry xxx

    Tyler 42
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    Yeah I suppose hun, I just really don’t like the shape of mine so far 🙁 how you feeling hun? @kellyp xx

    Tyler 42
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    No Hayley I havent, I’m going to leave it til next week now, I hope it’s just taking longer and nothing else xx

    Sharks 149
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    Hun, everyone is different and the healing process/fluffing and dropping is different for everyone. I know how damn frustrating this waiting game can be but you just have to be patient. The shape will get better as time goes on and you could take some arnica tablets or buy some arnica cream for the bruising. Waiting is all you can do now. I assure you, they will look better in time. Am now 10 weeks post-op and my left boob has just now started catching up a bit more with my right. It depressed me a little bit that my left boob looked so different from the right but I knew there was nothing I could do but just keep waiting and hoping that this would change.

    How many weeks post-op are you? Unders can take up to 6 months to get to the final result. Everything will be alright hun. Just be a bit more patient. Happy healing. xxx

    Tyler 42
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    Thanks so much sharks, that’s really reassuring! I’m only 11 days post op so really early in the whole healing process lol but I can’t help thinking that something is wrong with mine comparing to other girls who are a couple days behind me 🙁 zx

    Trace 158
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    Sweetie don’t judge your results based on other girls, it will kill you.

    Like a lot of the others say its a waiting game and some girls boobs may just be settling quicker, maybe your pectoral muscles are much stronger than the other girls so it’s taking a little longer, our maybe the other girls have more elasticity in their skin or like myself had excess skin to start with so drop quicker.

    My nurse told me mine would take 6-12 months to settle and that’s when I’d see the end result, I had partials.

    Just remember you’ve had two separate major operations, I’m sure they’ll settle beautifully xx

    kelly p 33
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    Everyone is different hun
    I have very tight skin and think
    One are going to take a while to settle
    I’ve had a child but My boobs never stretched at all
    I think they will e fine
    It’s hard tho isn’t it
    Stay strong xx

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    Aww, please try and not worry! It’s such an emotional time and I know how difficult it is to just wait for them to settle. I’m nearly 12 weeks and they still aren’t completely settled and keep changing loads. Be patient and try not to compare your results to others as everyone heals differently. Sending you a big cuddle xxx

    Tyler 42
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    Thank you so much girls! I’m so glad Mya has this forum, think I’d be in floods of tears constantly without talking to you lot on here! You’re all so supportive and reassuring! Thank you all again 🙂 xxx

    kelly p 33
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    Were all In the same boat hun
    I love coming on here
    Feel like your all friends ha ha
    Xxx

    Tyler 42
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    Definitely kelly! Hope you’re feeling well hun xxx

    Anonymous
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    i agree this forum is just what we all need pre and post op 🙂 just knowing were all in the same boat makes everything 100% easier <3 xxx

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