Having doubts :( ! Started by: Jessica

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  • Jessica
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    Hi girls
    I have to pay more on my deposit on Monday and starting to have doubts about whether to go through with my BA at all! Wanted to have it done for agesssss but now I’m worried that I won’t like the end result or the recovery will be horrible 🙁 also don’t want everyone knowing I’ve had a boob job so scared they will look really fake.. Don’t know what to do! Booked in for with Mr Singh (I’m a 32c & having 375cc overs) for 21st Dec. Should I postpone it? Any advice would be much appreciated xx

    Anonymous
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    Iv been very confused about recovery.. How it will look.. What ppl think if any thing goes wrong will I get told u so.. And worried about having drains haha! Which is my biggest fear but all I do no is a
    I want lvly boobs so what ever it takes then so be it! If Ur in doubt don’t rush it’s a lot of money and u need to prepare yourself. Take time off to think there’s cooling off period with most deposits check before u pay anymore. If u want it u will just no your having them. Good luck z

    Stephanie -1
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    I wanted mine for over 10 years.

    I did nothing and gained over 5 stone and got seriously fed up. This year I have lost 5.5 stone in 8 months ran a marathon and last week had my boob job, not for anyone else, just for me. I’m still in a bit of discomfort but i feel bloody brilliant finishing a marathon was awesome having boobs is a similar feeling but 24×7 I love it 🙂

    Take your time making a decision, but if to go for it all I can say is that it is awesome

    Kylie 1
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    Your worries and questions are what pretty much every girl goes thru I reckon, it’s only natural as its a huge decision. Only YOU know, deep down, whether YOU really want it done. You can see from the girls on here how great they all look after its done. Everyone’s recovery will be different but just remember, it is only a ‘recovery period’, it won’t last forever. As for other people, would you tell someone else what to do with their body? Let them say what they want as long as you’re happy.
    Good luck with whatever you decide.
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    i feel the same i had my first consultation last week and got offered a cancellation on the 17th dec which we snapped up and paid the full balance!!! but now i keep feeling scared and nervous, i see the surgeon this week and have my pre op so i’m hoping they can calm my nerves x

    kerry
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    I’m having mine on the 17th too. i feel the same. am not really telling people, only close friends and fam. something I’ve wanted for a long time though. 32b/c too, going for a d. don’t want the fake look etc. nervous. only 15 days to go eek. i know how you feel x

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    oh who’s your surgeon kerry? I’m having mine with Mr Mounir, i’m trying not to think about it cos i feel sick with nerves lol

    Kat1980
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    Hi Kerry, I was the same I panicked when I paid my deposit and even though I’d wanted it for years was so worried about it. I’m now coming up for 5 weeks Post op and I do not regret it one bit. For the first 3 weeks after the op I aws questioning what I’d done as they were sore and swollen and didnt look right. I had loads of worries. Now I’m starting to feel like they are mine. They are softening and look more natural. One has dropped quicker than the other which I expected from readig the forums and I had a larger implant in one so it will take more time to heal. I haven’t told anyone apart from my husband, my sister and mum and thats it and nobody else needs to know. I told my work colleagues I’d hut my shoulder and thats why I was holding myself funny. Really go for it and a few weeks on you’ll be delighted.

    Rebecca
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    I have my ba on 4th jan! i feel the same some of the few people i have told questioned why and worried i would ruin myself. I dont want them to look fake or to regret it as its a lot of money to spend also. ive been thinking about it for years though, always complain about my boobs so just need to remember why i wanted it in the first place not worry about what other people say xx

    Anonymous
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    My ops on the 1st feb I feel the same I’m having 485cc I didn’t want to be quite that big but because I have so much skin after 2 pregnancys it couldn’t b helped so that was another worry thinking I’m not going to b happy with the results but unless u go 4 it who nos! I’m telling no1 apart from odd few I’m hiding out now till I’m fully recovered then no1 will notice ga! It’s natural to worry I think it’s a massive step and a lot of choices to make! Good luck xx

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