Maintaining realistic expectations Started by: Anonymous

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    Hi girls!!! Thought I’d just do a little post about this subject as I’ve read so many accounts of girls (not just on here, online everywhere!) of seeking the perfect result and being less than pleased when they don’t feel it has been achieved.

    One of the biggest things to remember when entering any kind of cosmetic surgery, is maintaining a realistic expectation of the outcome that you are likely to get. One of the hardest jobs working with patients (mine aren’t in this line of work but the principle is the same) is managing a patients expectation, and to be honest sometimes they are just unrealistic and completely unattainable for one reason or another.

    The key is to work out the reason why you want surgery in the first place. If it is for a bigger fuller bust, then absolutely they can achieve that. If it is for an uplift and to gain better symmetrical breasts, then they can achieve that too! What no surgeon in any line of work can promise you is perfection. It won’t be like someone else’s, it won’t make them identical and there will be things that are entirely unpredictable that can take place afterwards.
    They are all here to achieve the best possible result for your own body, keeping in mind that there are boundaries, there are limits and sometimes there are things that cannot be achieved. When a surgeon tells you what these limits are and tells you about some negative aspects that need to be discussed, do not take it personally. They want to help you, they want you to fully understand the pros and cons and what the most likely result is going to be. They aren’t against you and they don’t intentionally tell you these things on purpose to upset you.

    We think of cosmetic surgery and we think it’s a solution and an avenue to perfect something. It absolutely isn’t! While it solves most problems it doesn’t always solve them all and the only way of being happy with your results is by accepting this before entering into surgery and keeping in mind the sole goal of why you want to do it in the first place!

    We all want those perfect boobies, we can have them! there will be variations, slight differences, unique things that are part of what make us. If you can be realistic about surgery then you will have no regrets afterwards and spend all your time being glad you went ahead with it!

    <3

    Nicole 3
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    I thought this was a lovely genuine comment

    Nicole 3
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    Xx

    Anonymous
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    Thanks sweetie <3 upsets me girls spend all this money, time and emotion to feel really deflated afterwards, when I can bet my bottom dollar what they have now is better than when they first wanted the surgery. xxx

    Trace 158
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    Never a truer word. Well done hun, you’re spot on xx +1

    Lauren 18
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    Very very well said xx

    Lucy Anna 146
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    love this 🙂 xx

    Anonymous
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    2 true.. great post huni x

    Freya 70
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    100% agree. Great post ♡

    Anonymous
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    Haha awww thanks girls <3 you are a lovely bunch <3 positive thoughts <3 xxx

    Fionajsd 131
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    Well said hun ! X

    Amy 265
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    Fantastic post hun. X

    Anonymous
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    ahh this is lovely! xo

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