MEN AND PHOTOS!

SORRY THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BOOBS BUT NEED SOME HELP!

MY BF MOVED OUT OF HIS HOUSE AND FOUND A USB STICK WAS PLEASED TO FIND IT AS HE SAID IT HAD ALL HIS OLD COMPANY FILES ON IT.
HE SAID HE WAS GOING TO TAKE IT TO WORK TO PUT IT ALL ONTO CD!

I FIND IT ON HIS SIDE TABLE TODAY AND THOUGHT I WOULD HAVE A LOOK AT HIS WORK KITCHENS HE DONE !

AND I FIND PICTURES AND VIDS OF HIM AND HIS EX NAKED PORN LIKE PHOTOS !!!!!
I NOW FEEL TOTALLY SICK AND UPSET!!!!
WHY WOULD HE WHAT TO KEEP THEM !!!
HE SAYS HE HATES HIS EX WHO HE HAS A CHILD WITH AGED 4!

I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO KNOW 🙁 SO GUTTED AS I THOUGHT HE WOULD DELETE ANYTHING OF HER!!
THE PHOTOS WHERE TAKEN IN 2006!!

WHAT DO I DO!? HELP!

May seem unhelpful but personally for me there’s no excuse I would end it!:l fuming! Sorry I can’t think of a reasonable reason to have them !:l you are far better Hun that’s awful ! Xx

How long have you been together hun? And was there anything else on the usb or just these photos?! If you decide to stay with him make sure you milk it! (It could just be an honest mistake, guys are stupid like that sometimes) but i certainly wouldnt be happy and id make him pay for it lol xx

I have a child with my ex and tbh we both have moved on well I have but we will always have a connection that no one else can have as we have a child … Doesn’t mean I love him .. But I don’t know how r feels for me … He must still have feelings or attraction sorry to say :/ 🙁 … I would end it before I’m hurt more but if you feel it’s salvageable sit down have a shout make him suffer and demand answers … I can’t think how he could reply but only u know how u feel and the dynamics is he that type or flirty etc anyway? Has it surprised u? Xx

Thats abit disturbing! i found cds of my bf and his ex of their holiday pics nothing rude tho and i thru them straight away why would they need it? Its made me feel sick reading this post because if that was my fella id of ripped all his clothes up by now and ruined his life i feel for you hun im sorry your found it but you need to question him about ‘has he looked whats on the usb since he found it’ if not then he might of genuinely thought it was ‘company files’ xx

i am really GUTTED! hes not flity with her that i know of, been together a year n half and never really had a proper reason why they split up. although a close gf of his told be that she cheated on him. but he has never told me this. Find it so upsetting that he must know there there and not deleted them! He was with her for 7 years.
Also there is other girls on there aswell photos from 2006 2007! Really dont know what to do as every time im going to look at him or his ex im going to see the pictures!!! Making me think if there is more on his phone too!! x

Was there company files on there? If not.. Make him pay!!!! I would! Chin up babe xx

I would rip his head off if he knew anout the pics n lied to you! Men are arses!!! Xx

Sorry that can’t be a bloody mistake of there is other girls 😮 🙁 I literally can’t say anything else but respect yourself and end It I would but as I said I don’t know him … I’m sorry anyway I know how u feel in a way my ex was still chatting to his ex callin her Hun etc :l I ended it right away just on that basis I didn’t need to worry why should I have to 🙂 best Decision iv made 🙂 xx

I can only imagine how ur feeling right now if this was me I’d be hunting him down right now without thinking first so well done for at least asking advise hun! It depends on what else is on there and if they were immediately what you saw if they are then he has no way of saying he didnt know they were there but if there were hundreds of pictures and they were some way through the files it might be a genuine mistake…but I cant see it myself….i’d be gutted. My advise would be to sit and think about this and anything else thats ever annoyed you about your partner and weigh up what it all means to you if its worth it but if this was out of the ordinary and usually his faultless maybe brush it aside but if there are many other things he’s done and this is the tip of the iceburg let rip lol xxx hope you sort it xx

There is company files but not very many!! more dirty pictures! I feel so sick and to make it even worse she has bigger boobs than me!!!! 🙁 Really dont know what to do 🙁

Get an explanation asap!! No point sitting around getting your self wound up. Dont text eother its easier to lie than hearing it in their voice or seeing their faces xx

@alissa2012 I feel so gutted and SICK for you hun I cant believe someone would do that what a waste of a year n half!!!! Theres no explaination for that hun!! your so much better than that!!!! xx

You should maybe at least give him the chance to give his side, you’ll know if he’s BSing you. I think men have a different outlook on things like that, I would never want to look at old pics of me with an ex would turn my stomach if I was with someone new. But they just look at the sex aspect of it. Horrible for you though hun, must of really shocked you, and some things you can just never get out of your head. Def do it face to face not over the phone..good luck xx

Think im going to tell him after work face to face not sure if im going to be able to look at him or his ex the same again!!! Makes me think if he has got more on his phone!!! Thanks for all your advise girls xx

Just be honest and stand your ground because men will try and talk themselves out of anything xx

Good luck with confronting him babe hope you sort it xx

i wouldnt go too nuts men are just silly and dont think! make him sweat a bit but as sam said….weigh things up, if everything else is awesome dont throw it away for something thats in his past. just make him delete them! x

I agree with Smoggs, don’t go too mad. Think it through first, ideally sleep on it if you can-if you act in haste you repent at leisure. Men do silly things but he didn’t actually cheat on you. Maybe he knew what was on there but just wanted to have a quick look first before deleting it- I would probably do the same even though the thought of my exes makes me feel sick and I would never ever cheat or do anything to betray my boyfriend. I guess it’s just morbid curiosity

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I agree with the above, confront him about it but instead of getting angry and crying about it, be rational and give him the chance to give you an honest answer… if you blow up he will probably get pissed off and go on the offensive and probably give you a hard time about looking on it in the first place. Similar think happened to me and i went nuts at him and it didnt get me anywhere. X

I told him I borrowed the usb and found some pics I really didnt want to see. He says he didnt know they wher ther but says he keeps it in his wallet I thought was weird! X

Just hope theirs no more anywhere else. Thanks for all your advise girls has really helped x

how did yesterday go hun?? xx

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