Only 2 weeks left, am I taking the right decision? :-/

Hi girls! I’ve got only 2 weeks to go until my BA, and now I am really having second thoughts, whether I am doing the right thing, should I do it or not? I’m worried about how big will my boobs get if I’d be pregnant, how bad would the shape change… Also I still haven’t told my parents, and god knows I’m so scared to… I’m not living with them anymore so they can’t kick me out really, so at least that’s not a worry :)) also I’m so scared of being judged by my friends, only my best friends know, but the rest and my relatives… Oh they’re so so judgemental… I really want to have my family’s support, and hope this won’t spoil our relationship. Probably next weekend I’d have to tell them, but should I really? My first choice would be not to say a word :))

Hey bbe I was exactly the same. I kept thinking about pregnancy and pip and cancer and reading horror stories. Didn’t tell my mum until 4days before she cried so much I felt so bad, but she understood it was something I really wanted. I printed her out loads of information and showed her my surgeon and his qualifications/experience. Also helped having Mya feature on towie lol

Also I met a friend of a friend who had Mr Singh 7yrs ago and has breast fed 2 kids!! She said her boobs were massive during breast feeding and she was soo worried they’d be ruined and she would have to re op but they went backed to normal, when she showed me them I couldn’t believe it they look FAB

I just had to keep reminding myself why I was doing it and how I’d got so far in my decisiosion. Now I’ve done it I’m soo happy and wish I done it earlier. My family and friends have been great and all supported me and looked after me. You have to tell them as you’ll need looking after you’ll be surprised how well they take it and the pampering you’ll get

Hope this helps, but if you feel your not ready then defo speak to your PC about postponing..xxx

Hiya doll, I definitely had the same thoughts as you, in fact I pulled out the first time, the day before surgery. I immediately regretted it so I knew I wanted to go ahead. I have only told 2 people and no one else has noticed as I got small implants. It’s completely your decision who you tell and what you tell them, it’s your body and your decision. All I will say is don’t try and think too much about what others reactions. I was so concerned with people knowing and judging me that it affected my decision and I ended up regretting not going for a larger size as no one would ever have known! Just remember if you do go ahead, you’re doing a positive thing, nothing to feel bad about x

Hi Maria I feel exactly the same as you. I have my consultation with Dr Mounir on the 16th March and am looking to have mine done early April. I also feel so worried about what people will say(especially my mum). I have an 8 year old daughter and dont know if I want more children yet so am worried that this will ruin my boobes if I do eventually have anymore. At the moment its all I can think about though, its like im obsessed with having boobs, im just really scared of the process!!xx

Thanks Ladies, I feel more reassured, but still can’t Imagine how I’d face my family, but again, as you said it’s my own body and my decision, hope they’ll understand me.

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