People keep putting me offfffffff …

Agggggggh!

I’ve only told a select few people about my supposed plans for my Op (Having to arrange childcare etc) and I keep being told i’m mad, What a lot of money to be spending just before Christmas, this could be much better spent on other things, Can you even afford to be doing it etc etc etc..
Then its the, Ooooooh its a big ask having someone take you/babysit all day so close to Christmas.
(I will have to travel to Highgate so leave about 5am and prob wouldn’t be back till about 8pm) even though i’m supposed to stay close to the hosp.

Even the hubby is saying I’m mad now its come down to it and doesn’t think I should do it
(We’ve said all along for years this is something I will definitely have done) when the time is right, So for him to start saying this now has really pissed on my chips!!

Soooooooo frustrating!

I booked the op over a year ago now, up until I booked it my boyfriend, and both parents never said it was a bad idea.. I then went ahead and booked it and then it became a problem to all of them (until I got refused for finance).. My dad even told me he would kick me out if I went ahead with it.. all 3 of them thought it was a phase I was going through, and still to this day I want it done.. now at 21 im going ahead with it.. regardless of how they all feel.. we are all doing this for our own personal confidence. don’t listen to others, they don’t fully understand how you feel about your boobs.. if I had the money and could get time off work now I could certainly treat myself to a Christmas pressie of new boobies! xxx

Thanks Babes,
I’ve been for consultations before over the past 5 years so its not as though im making a decision on impulse, I just kept putting off before as the timing wasn’t right, I felt bad spending the money or the needs of my children came first.
I mean how long can I keep putting it off for, I will be a wrinkly 60 year old with new double E’s at this rate haha!

If I could go on my own and just not tell anyone id rather do that!! xxx

(By the way hun – I’ve always wanted Singh too, Havent changed my mind yet either) xx

Its soo hard when people dont support you! I had this issue but i stuck to going through with it as its what i wanted!! Dont let people change your mind, im now 1 week 5 days post op and my family have started too come round! My friends are still a bit funny about it but thats probs jealousy!
Do what you feel is right for you hun 🙂 dont let people put you down for doing something that will make you happy 🙂 xx

That’s exactly the same with me.. I went for my first consultation at 17 just before my 18 and I prob was to young to make that decision then but after years of researching and fantasizing bout having nice boobs, if I was in ur position id go for it!
& im completely the same if I could go on my own and of had the money to have it done, before, I would have!
one of my best friends had hers done over a year ago an the difference in her confidence is mental..
go for it hun!!
& let me know if mr singh is still as lovely as he was over a year ago… I imagine il stick with him 🙂 xxx

Do it for yourself!
I didn’t tell anyone accept my husband, who fully supported me. I think people hear the scare stories, esp with the PIP issue recently, and are more scared for you than anything but everything has its risks. Having babies has its risks but you still do it.
As long as youre happy with your decision, then go for it!
A year later its been the best decision I’ve made and my confidence is through the roof! 😉
Good luck. X

oh god ignore them hun u only live once & its your body at the end of the day, lifes too short, do what makes YOU happy. coz people dont think twice about when they want something..
my (ex) bf and his family tried to talk me out of having it done dunno why people are so weird about plastic surgery its 2013 for fcuk sake!! its a good time of year to do it coz i did it in summer n it was crap sat in all summer healing and then once healed its cold out so covered up with jumpers lol!!

I don’t get why people do this :/ A lot of people I know are the same, the thing that makes me laugh is tattoos and peircings are now generally acceptable and in the grand scheme things plastic surgery isn’t all that different to those things. It’s all body modification, the results and motivation are different but in general it’s the same thing. x

Don’t let people like that get to you darl.. Jealousy plays a big part and besides who cares what anyone thinks as long as your happy.. They feed of this when you are bothered! wen your not it eats away at them
Cheer up

Ah thanks so much girls i really do appreciate it!

@ayshababy – Its 2013 for fcks sake!! Ha Ha Sooo true!

I know they will all fully support me once i decide to do it anyway (Which is what I usually do, Tell me not to do something and I will do the opposite)
But its more the guilt trip about the money and with it being so close to christmas.

I suppose there main views are justified when they are saying I will pretty much be out of action for Christmas Day and its unfair on my babies.
Which is very true – Only thing is I’ve gone for a late space so not sure I would be able to hold the price if I went any later and Im pushing it with my finances as it is.

Those who have had it done, Can you please give me your honest opinions on how you ‘think’ i will be feeling by day 4 (As i know everyone is different) as I’m potentially having them on the 21st….Am I mental? xxx

Thanks @candybabey @Kaydeestafford @Kylie @shell1104 @Kirsty
Feeling a bit better already xxxxx

Are you having unders or overs? I had overs, which I was told heal quicker as your not disturbing the chest muscle, and I was mucking out horses by day 7.
Day 4 will be sore, very sore, but it will all depend on your individual reaction.
Good luck X

I dont know what I would be having yet – Find out this week?
Do you get given the option … The less pain the better so might ask them to just stick them to the outside not even bother putting them in..
haha – Wow really that quick, Thats great!

Another thing is I was hoping I could not have their painkillers (as ive heard they make you feel really sick and spaced out) and just take my own –
Take it this would be absolute madness! Is the pain real bad xx

guilt trip about it being close to xmas?! we’re allowed to treat ourselves at xmas aswel as everyone else! xx

yeh exactly they did to me aswel even my ex who tried so hard to stop me an then after id had them he loved them. guys try n stop us coz theyre worried we’re suddenly gonna have this new found confidence and outgrow them n wanna move on lol but its not the case obviously!! an family are just worried i guess!xx

i dont think ur mad lol by day 5 i went to my nans birthday party thing, i felt okay not in pain a lil uncomfy if i missed a painkiller, just couldnt move my arms much n was wary of people bumping into me xx

@pinkfly7 it’s Tyne antibiotics that tend to make you sick more but you have to take
Them as precaution for infection and also the GA CAN make u feel groggy for a few days.
I got approval from my surgeon to stop antibiotics as they made me feel so rank but by day 4 pain wise It wasn’t really bad. It’s more uncomfortable and tight than painful. Nighttime is when you’ll struggle getting comfy etc. Pain wise on a scale of 1-10 10 being the worst id say it was 3-4. But you will feel groggy and tired for a few days. You won’t be feeling the best on Xmas day, however it will be soooo worth it and sure everyone can give you a helping hand. You won’t be stuck in bed or anything but your gunna just be drained x

Hi aysha hope you don’t mind the add it won’t let me private msg you for some reason x

I told a few of my friends a year ago, but i sort of said it like ‘I’m thinking of getting a BA, I got
Completely talked out of it.. So cancelled my operation. After a year I just told them I was having one, this way it was open for discussion, they had to support me. I have been so surprised by there support. I think you have to sound so sure of yourself when you tell people.

Its your christmas present to yourself all us moms turn into robots for our husbands and our children and its not mad to do something for yourself to make yourself happy. Bet your hubby loves the finished results as well, more boobies to play with lol xx

I hate it how people become judgmental and don’t understand why we want plastic surgery, I think it’s partly jealousy and partly cuss they think we want to flash our tits to everyone when actually it’s because we don’t feel happy with what we have and have the opportunity to change it. Just remember it’s your body, your money and you have carried a child and put your body through changes so you deserve to have this done for you. I’ve told a few friends and my partner is so supportive but I know once family find out they will all judge! X

So it’s not just me who keeps it a secret lol I am trying not to tell too many people I am going to have my boobs done! I don’t like all the negativity and bad thoughts that people try and tell you! At the end of the day it’s true, you only live once! And if it makes us happy then that’s all that matters! It’s nobody else’s business! I am having them done In January and I am really excited but also nervous and part of me is worried what others may think, but I worry too much about other peoples opinion! :-/
I guess we have to be a little bit selfish sometimes and figure out what’s best for us x 🙂
Good luck x

Thanks girls – Well it didnt rub off too much as i confirmed to go ahead today! Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!
Now I really am scared xxx

my boyfriend keeps flapping ill leave him but now hes excited do whats best for you if its what you want go for it im having mine either way lol xx

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