Really upset

Am probably being a massive drama queen but I’m really upset as I only live in a small town and my ex boyfriend (came to all my consultations with me) has gone and told one of the biggest gossips that I’m having a rhinoplasty. I know she will tell people as thats all she ever does is bitch about to people that I see out and about in town, I also have a shop in the town where most people come into. I feel like its put a slight bad feeling over the whole thing. He knew I didn’t want to tell people-I haven’t even told my own dad and my op is only a couple of weeks away. Now I just feel as if people will be staring at me and looking at my nose and I will feel really self conscious about having it done, when I want to feel confident for once. He is saying I am being over the top by being upset by this, what do you think? x x

Don’t worry about it. at the end of the day it will be paid for. so show it off. let people talk they will envy yoir perfect nose..if they have got nothing else to talk about let them talk x

I don’t think your being over the top at all. If he knew you didn’t want anyone to know why would he tell someone? I’d be pretty pee’d off with him!
But I wouldn’t not go through with it just because of people knowing. Chances are people would of noticed anyway.
Aww try not to let it get to you and ruin it for you hun xx

I haven’t told any of my family… only two people from work and my ex boyfriend. But you know what, it’s no body’s business cept yours. And you will love your new nose, and I think everyone will be very complimentary. When i went back to work no one noticed (I work in an all male office ~ what do ya expect…LOL!) but you know what a few people did, and they asked why didn’t you say you were going to do it. My answer is why would I? It’s personal and i’m not exactly going to advertise it, but if someone asks, then when I’m not going to say I didn’t have the op! From all the people who’ve had rhinosplasty on this forum, they’ve all been super happy about the result, and I think you would too. You’ve got nothing to be ashamed of. Be proud, show it off 🙂 xx

what a total a-hole. Order ‘etiquette for dummies’ and get it delivered to his house. Or better yet, get a pretty box and put a dog turd in it and drop it round. You aren’t being over-sensitive, what he did was totally unacceptable and makes him a complete jerk. You are being more rational and level-headed about it than I would be. It’s your decision and you won’t regret it – I am sure you will look great and will be really happy with the result. Just keep yourself to yourself for a few weeks until those losers find something else to talk about. xx

Aw pebble! You’re not being dramatic, that is so rude of him. But just think – at the moment they may talk but just keep telling yourself you don’t care what other people think this is for you. And also once you’ve done the op and your nose looks great it will all blow over and people will be nice about it! X

Thank you for the support girls! I felt like I was being daft as he was saying I shouldn’t be upset at all as he didn’t know I wasn’t telling anyone which is complete rubbish. To be honest it bothered me more that I haven’t got the guts to even say to my dad yet (and he knows that) never mind people I hardly know being in my business and I was worried someone might say something to me infront of my dad or another member of my family, as only my mum and brother know. I am feeling a lot better about it now though, I won’t be leaving the house for the 2 weeks other than to have stitches out and my cast off so hopefully be avoiding the gossips. I just want to enjoy my day now and enjoy the results hopefully. Thanks so much x x x x

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