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Hello, my first time on here.

I’m really upset right now. I’ve seen my gp, she can’t help me. I’ve been refused the loan. And now I’m stuck. I’ve been crying all morning. I’m a 34AAA.

No one else will help me. My gp agreed that surgery is my only option now, I’ve had counselling etc and its no good.

Just feeling really low. No idea what to do. I’m disgusting and gross. I look like a child. I couldn’t breastfeed my daughters and its all my breasts fault, I’m so useless.

Help me please. Don’t know what to do. 🙁

Sweetheart thats not true.. Youre beautiful the way God has made you and theres always a solution to every problem, why is it that you’ve been refused the loan? X

I’ve had my debts written off, so I can’t apply for credit for over 6 years. Even then it will be limited. I only work part time as a cleaner so I don’t earn enough to save either.i just want to be happy.

hey love. dont be so hard on yourself, you dont need big boobs to make you good looking. but obviously being a part of this forum shows how much implants would mean to us all so we do understand where your coming from. youv mentioned your GP and counselling, is there any chance you could qualify for a boob job on the NHS? they obviously know how much this is making an impact on you. if not, im afraid the only option is to save, i know that might seem impossible but remember you dont always need to pay the full whack, a lot of companies are willing to haggle and you can always ask for a day case to bring the price down even more. sorry this isnt exactly the magic answer, but i do hope you feel better about yourself soon xxx

My gp said the NHS won’t do it unless there was a huge difference in size or I’ve had cancer. I think I may be able to put away maybe £5 a month. I suppose it would be a start. If someone said I could have one tomorrow then I’d accept it in a flash.

Do you have anything that you could sell to help with the saving?? I know it may take a while but it’s worth doing Hun xxx

yeah i understand :/ … obvisouly if you were to get a loan you’d have to make weekly/monthly repayments, is there not anyway you can save what you’d be paying towards these but instead into a savings account? xx

Hey Hun aww im sorry I was the same my GP point blank refused! but you maybe in a better position are you still under the counsellor? If both your counsellor and GP agree that you are depressed to a point it is impacting on your health and daily life your GP CAN make a refferal and it is down to the DRMC not your doctor they have hundreds of refferals every month including request for breast augementation and they will choose 10 out of that pile for your borough so there is a small chance of course as your finding the issue is getting your gp to agree because ultimately it is your doctors surgery that pay for the procedure! Keep on it Hun and you never know you might just persuade them!! But in the mean time try to save and think of other ways that you could possibly try tightening your belt? Do you smoke or drink? I smoked but your not allowed too for 2weeks before or 6 weeks after surgery so I gave up thats around £50 a week more I have xx

Hi mummyamanda please don’t feel I completely understand how you are feeling I was refused by the NHS countless times had no breast what so ever I also have scoliosis of the spine that effect my chest wall I got as far as seeing the NHS surgeon who thought that I was entitled to the op on the NHS but funding refused me. I’m also disabled and unable to work due, I had a mountain of debts so couldn’t get a loan either, too me 5 long years of saving to finally have my op been 7 months now and I still don’t have the boobs I paid for having no boobs ruined my life but also having them has caused me distress.
You could keep trying with the NHS tell them you want to be a glamour model it worked for that Jodie girl, good luck x

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