Scared..

So my ops in five weeks time and I’ve been all over the place emotion wise, one minute excited about the op and results & the next scared of what could happen.
I’ve just gotten off the phone from my dad’s wife and she’s scared me that much about this op that I’m shaking, she thinks because I’m only 19 I will regret it ect.
I need some reassurance and your experiences girls, I’ve paid my deposit and I was 100% sure I wanted it but now I’m so scared about the whole thing.
Thanks in advance x

I had mine at 18 Deffo don’t think you’re too young if you was they wouldn’t do it xx

relax lovely! 🙂 honestly there’s nothing to worry about, the chances of any complications are so small and think of why you want it done. i was so scared but I realise now how silly i was spending all my time panicking and getting upset. it’s normal to feel all over the place but think of the positives, how you’ll feel afterwards, new bras, new bikinis, feeling content and happy with your new additions! honestly you’re not alone I think every girl goes through this stage before surgery, it’s natural as it’s a big change but you will feel so much better in time, and look through all the amazing results on here! if you need to talk feel free to message me ❤️

Hey Amber – I’ve just turned 20 and I have absolutely no regrets 🙂 You’ll honestly be absolutely fine and I bet you’ll be so pleased you went through with it when you have amazing boobs xx

Babe im 24 an if i could have done it alot sooner i would have. I can assure you 10000000% its the best thing i have ever done!! It’s your body, its what you want. I had people call me stupid, an that i’ll look ridiculous etc…but that’s their oppinion they’re not the ones who have to go through it! You’ll be absoloutley fine chic, you’ve come this far now with your consultations an booked your surgery, thats saying something right?! ❤️❤️❤️

@chloemoore I’d rather be younger so I can enjoy them for longer 🙂 do you have any regrets hun?

@helenelizabethxx thank you! It’s just all very overwhelming, I am excited but at the same time so nervous. I’m a worrier anyway but when I have people telling me I won’t be happy with the results and I will regret it it only makes me worry more. I’ve seen fab results on here and I haven’t seen hardly any girls who regret it, the only thing that she has made me realise is that I shouldn’t go too big due to the size I am now, I’m really slim. I was going to go for the biggest size but I’m having doubts about that now. Holiday shopping is what I look forward to after having them done :). Your results are so amazing and seeing them and everyone else’s makes me determined to go ahead with it ?

@harrietelizabethb did you ever have a moment of panic as the op came closer? I feel being younger means I can enjoy them for longer but my parents don’t agree which makes me feel sad xx

@samanthabella this is what makes me 100% sure I want it, I always hear the girls on here wishing they could have had it sooner so since I am lucky enough to go ahead now I don’t see why I shouldn’t as I will only get it at some point anyway. I’ve only really thought about the positives of having this surgery as if I thought about the negatives as well I wouldn’t go through with it, so now I’ve got people telling me it could go wrong it’s making me doubt it. I keep saying if anything did go wrong it could get sorted. Thanks hun, all these comments are really making me feel better ❤❤

Hi Amber, I’m sorry to hear that you have had a negative response from a family member, unfortunately you will always come up against people with different opinions (Or maybe jealous!) however you have to remember the reasons that you are even thinking about having this done, for me I didn’t feel feminine or that my body was in proportion and it used to get me down and make me feel insecure. They didn’t have to live with these feelings day in day out like I did. Trying to find clothes had fit properly and weren’t gaping at the top cos I had no boobies to put in them! My daughter once said to me ” mummy you don’t have any boobies just big nipples” Haha! Mortifying!!
I’m 37 years old and god do I wish that I had them done when I was your age instead of spending another 18 years unhappy and insecure. Yeah sure its painful, im not gonna lie, a little scary and you have to slow down for a bit but honestly it goes so fast and by day 10 I was back to normal. Id do it all again too!
Im soo excited for you xxx

amber i went for as big as they would offer me and i love them, go for whatever you and your surgeon think best and at the end of the day, it’s how you feel that really matters. i know it’s hard because i am also a massive worrier and over thinker but don’t worry about what other people might think or say! it’s your body and your choice, you’re old enough to decide what you want 🙂 also i had people tell me i look no different, pictures and seeing them naked proves otherwise! 😉 xxx

@abs2109 it is definitely upsetting to have a family member disapprove of my decisions and yesterday it did definitely make me doubt my decisions but it is women like you saying about how you wish you’d gotten them a long time ago that makes me go through with it. Children are far too honest at times! Bless her!
I experience every time I go clothes shopping the gap situation, especially in dresses and low cut tops (that I can never buy) and it has to be one of the most depressing feelings for a women! Especially when your friends can pull them off great.
I haven’t seen your results but I can imagine they look amazing, I honestly would truthfully say I haven’t seen any bad results on here nor on my instagram. Thank you so much for your reply to my topic, you’ve really reassured me. I’m just all over the place nerve wise, I should calm down soon! Xxx

@helenelizabethxx it’s horrible overthinking everything! Makes me doubt myself all the time. I think your boobies look amazing, especially in that vest top! I will definitely be discussing the right size for me before I go in for my op with my surgeon, I’m guessing they run through the desire sizes before you go down? I don’t feel old enough to be making decisions yet lol, the years have flew by! Xxx

yeah i am awful for over thinking everything haha thanks babe ? yeah linda fiumara basically said on the day of surgery she would decide when i went down what size she would give me and she went for bigger than we originally decided but glad i trusted her because i love them! xxx

Did she order in all the sizes so she could choose which one would be best for you? I am just going to tell my surgeon to go with Whatever size looks best on me, I trust his judgement and they all have so much experience. Very excited for my op now but I do get random moments of feeling nervous, it’s annoying me how a few of my friends all think I’ll regret it when I’m older – rather look good whilst we can ay! When I’m older I don’t think I’ll care as much ? xx

@helenelizabethxx

yeah she ordered 3/4 sizes i think and just went with what was best on the day as she was unsure which ones would even fit on me! haha some of my ‘friends’ were very negative about it and calling me vain for wanting it done, like being upset and down about the way i look is normal?! but since then loads of people have said how good they look and how happy i am! ? worth it 100%! xx

haha! I got this from “friends” too saying that I was superficial…. funny how they are had decent size boobs though – couldn’t feel my pain!!

@helenelizabethxx well I think you look fab and they are obviously jealous of how you look! Thanks for all your help babe, really made me more excited for my op ?xx

@abs2109 I actually think fake boobs can look nicer then real boobs tbh, I have so many friends who were gifted with boobs and most of them understand my pain as I get all embarrassed if they come to my house with a low cut top ect when my boyfriends there. Can’t wait to feel confident!

Exactly! And some of the pictures on here you can’t tell if they are fake or not! My friends that have been negative have all been blessed with big or in proportion boobs so they don’t understand what it’s like to be unhappy with your body and just think I should shut up and use padded bras. Although on the flip side some friends think it’s brilliant that I had the balls to do it 🙂 xx

@abs2109 you sound like the postion I am currently in, so jealous of some of my friends! Padded bras are all well and good until you take them off, that’s why I don’t wear them because it’s gutting when you do take the bra off. I do think it takes balls to go through this procedure as we really don’t know what to expect from our results! But all I’m thinking right now is anything is better then what I have at the moment 🙂 xx

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