Take a minute …

Girlies before u jump in and get carried away with the fact you can have this done,take a look at your natural boobies that are all yours and make sure that you want a fake pair because ALOT and i mean ALOT of men prefer natural and real!!Good luck with whatever you all decide Xxxxx

I had mine done for myself Charlie, not any man. I’m 42 and after having 3 wonderful children my husband treated me to something I’d wanted to do for me , for such a long time and I think I deserve it and am very happy with my decision x

I don’t think it should be decided on what a man wants! I’m the same as Sharon I have a 3 year old son and my fiancé is paying for my op for ME because he knows how much I how unhappy my boobs make me and have done for years.Yes it’s a big decision but it should be decided on what you want, not what anyone else wants x

I am happy for you Sharon,and of course you’d hope that every women who has them done , does it for herself and not a man but the sad case is a lot of the time this is not true (I have a number of friends who did it for that reason) Im just putting it out there as my friend regrets it so much as she had cute perky boobs and rushed into having them done to boost her confidence after a break up and now regrets it.i am not against breast augmentation but I believe people should take time to think about what they have and appreciate it 🙂 Xxxx

I agree its a decision which is not to be taken lightly and needs a great deal of thought as its not something which can be easily reversed x

I hated my old boobs!! Now I love them! Best decision I ever made..and I did it entirely for myself. 🙂 xx

Kirsty and Tara,again I’m genuinely happy for you that your happy.At the end of the day happiness should be the goal in life.some girls mentality however, is that if her boobs aren’t big enough ,or the perfect shape she’s isnt attractive (which is so so wrong)so they jump in to get fake ones so my point is ,just take your time to realise what you want and if your really that badly effected by your natural boobs. 🙂 Xxxx

‘Perfect’ whats perfect?doesnt exist Xxxx

Natural boobs may have been all mine but I hated them so I could do something about it and I did, not all implants look fake and un natural

I love my “fake” boobies lol

I haven’t had mine done yet. Less than 3weeks away, so frickin excited. 🙂 I’m doing this for myself and wanted it done when I was 18 but was adviced to wait till I’m 21. I’m now 22 and I’ve been putting it off because of one thing and another. Now it’s happening I can’t actually wait. I just want it to happen now. Some people might think ‘oh you bimbo’ but that’s usually the people that have boobs. For us that don’t have boobs or aren’t happy with them, it something that can be ‘mended’ x

Why have you joined @charlie1234 tbh I think you are a man as you have only added people as friends, never ever commented on any other post and then gone on about what a man thinks of fake boobs!

I agree with you Kaley….does seem a bit suspect. I’m having mine done in 2 weeks & waited almost 10 years to build up courage to have this done for no one else but me. Amen 🙂 x

Why has this even been posted?!

I think to wind us all up xx

What a freak

This post is a bit odd on a cosmetic forum!! My breasts are a lot more “normal” looking now than before i had them done. I felt like a complete freak with saggy boobs from nursing at 22! My fiance was against it until i had it done and now says it was worth all the money that I actually paid. Not him

I personally couldnt give a shit about what any man thinks! I waited 10 years for this and its the best thing ever! There’s not many of us that haven’t thought it through properly weighing up options and surgeons! Who would post this kind of thing on this sort of forum?? Crazy!

My bf seems perfectly happy with my FAKE silicone lumps..and aslong as me and my parnter are happy I couldnt give a flying monkeys what anyone else thinks of my boobs. And tbh how would you know what A LOT of other men like? Have you done a survey?

Well I didn’t do it for anyone but myself and alot of girls will tell you after having kids your boobies don’t look like they use to I didn’t like my real ones but I do love my fake ones and so does my hubby as long as he’s happy and I’m def happy I don’t care what anyone else thinks and people that decide to get surgery is up to them no one else as long as there happy that’s all that matters

I know plenty of men, I own four pubs, and trust me, they don’t fricking care whether they are real or fake… As long as there’s something in a top for them to stare at! They are one-track-minded
Us woman have done this for us, for whatever reason, there’s few that do it for the attention, and the ones that do, go stupid, and huge for no reason other then because they can!
It’s a personal decision we make for us xx

Nope I am a women I can assure you.When you have a friend that you love dearly and she feels she made a massive mistake I feel the need to make people aware of that.If people actually read what I have written they would realise I’m NOT against cosmetic surgery I’m purely advising people to think about it and not jump in too quickly as my friend would have loved that advice 2 years ago.Xxxx

I’m not saying everyone would feel that way,of course not. I know many who have had them and are happy with them but there’s also those who aren’t. Just putting it out there,everyone is different and have surgery for different reasonsXx

Why come on a forum for cosmetic surgery and shout about a ‘friends’ experience. Shouldn’t they be doing it themselves.
There’s no point in coming on here trying to cause trouble, one this profile will be gone quicker then our small boobs, and two we support each other
Whether results are good or bad, this forum is there to help and advise, so kindly take your lack of knowledge and stick in places where people may listen… Like an anti-surgery forum
Bubaye now

Everyone should know not to change therselfs for anybody else other than themselves though, I could have never gone through a boobjob for someone else, I was too darn scared, but knew it had to be done for me cause it was the only way I could feel good about myself having 2 kids at 20 and then been left with shriveled horrid boobs is not good for any 20 year olds self esteem I just wanted to feel normal for my peace of mind and now I do. If you go into it for the right reasons and think it throughfor long enough, it wouldn’t be a regret. Obviously doing it for someone else when your perfectly happy with your boobs is going to be pretty traumatic in the end.

Haha go Joannabella 😉

Charlie what you say is right, surgery isn’t a perfect thing for everyone, but we are all adults who should be bright enough to make our own decisions and sometimes things just go wrong, nothing’s perfect in this world, you just make the best of it as you can, and sometimes things just go wrong, but hey, that’s life.

But there are around 9 to 10,000 breast augmentations per year in the UK alone. This isn’t down to people being forced into something they don’t want 😉

My favourite saying is pretty simple “shit happens” sadly it sounds like it did to your friend, but people die crossing the road it doesn’t stop everyone else from crossing.

It seems a lot of you are getting confused with thinking I’m trying to tell people it’s wrong to have surgery…i’ll say it again ,that is NOT what I’m saying atall.if its brought you happiness then that’s brilliant.i won’t keep repeating myself as it seems people will take it as an attack when it really is not.Xxx

No not at all I get what your saying, think about it. BUT most people have surgery do it for the right reasons, it sounds like your friends done it for the total wrong reasons, so obviously she’s going to regret it. If a girl is uncomfortable with themselves and they can do something about it then go for it. But if theres doubts then its obvious not to go ahead with it. 1 thing in life is never change for anyone else, cause someone will love you for the exact person that you are without Changing. It’s actually sad that people would do things so drastic for other people

Of course I bloody thought about it after spending that much have u not read girls asking advice on size and surgeons etc? I’m not attacking you but no body is stupid here we all have a personal reason etc so does seem a bit insulting as you havnt had surgery and don’t feel u need to ..great ….. We had shit boobs we do 🙂 x

Did not mean to insult anyone,was not my intention.my boobs could be classed as ‘shit’ as I’m an A cup… Xx

Ok well if your not unhappy and they arnt cows udders then they arnt shit are they .. If your happy great thats why we are here to be happy its how u feel ….but yeah we wernt … That’s all I’m saying I’m 21 and had the boobs of a granny after a baby there’s my reason

even if a woman is happy with her natural boobs but just wants big fake boobs who gives a damn! i personally hate my natural boobs but even if i didnt and i wanted bigger boobs i would have a BA! everyone has their own reasons but there isnt a law saying you must be depressed to get a boob job and feel good about themselves!!! GIRLS DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!

I love my new boobs, a beautiful pair of round soft voluptuous boobs instead of two empty little sacks? Hmmmm who wouldn’t want that? Perhaps people who say they wouldn’t want it are people that can’t & are maybe jealous? Oh well, I’m in love with mine but not as much as my boyfriend is! Lol x

Forgive me if I am wrong and offend anyone however, Charlie1234, why would you sign up to a forum for girls who want plastic Surgery for THEIR OWN REASONS and ask us to think about it, do you not think every girl on here, myself included have thought about this decision a thousand times over? I am 5 days PO and am over the moon with them and like Beckie 90 so is my boyfriend. 🙂 I do hope your signing up wasnt only to preach to us.. The girls on this forum who are in the same sitatution as me have been a god sendand helped me through this process and I thank each and every one of them. MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY BOOB YEAR!!! xxxx

What I really dnt understand is she’s been a member for months n months added friends that have had boobjobs so why would she do that, then post a topic like this? Really cannot work it out tbh lol

I agree with rachel those that bitch always want i am not giving any explanation to some fool who has come on here as to why i wanted surgery is no one business as i paid for the surgeries myself so charlie hope you enjoyed the attention you received

I’m 33 years old, had my first BA when I was 26 and had my second one on Wednesday, both times I had surgery for me and me only. I don’t think any woman on here has ever mentioned having a BA for any reason other than themselves either. Putting yourself forward for general anaesthetic is a major decision and one which I highly doubt would be made for someone else’s benefit, in this case, a man. We all want nice boobies for ourselves, natural or fake, doesn’t matter. I don’t believe you have come on here to offered anyone but I don’t think your opinion is relevant with all of us, I think if you want to preach about the negative side of BA’s which so far only seems to be your “friends” then you’ve come to the wrong place.

I wish you could like statement on here like comments on FB! lol

It’s opinions and terms like ‘fake’ that make girls like me doubt having surgery because of comments like that! I hate my body and feel this is my only option! I’m only 19 but i thought This forum is meant to be a supportive environment to share experience and give advice to other women. So ‘take a minute’ and realise how patronising you are being to brave INDEPENDENT woman making a change for themselves!

Kirsten your comment Is really brave and so true. I’d just like to add my two cents, if I may. I booked in to have my surgery last week and I ended up cancelling it at the last minute. There were various reasons for this, some of which I won’t go in to on here, however one of the reasons was the fact that I’m struggling to get past the stigma which surrounds this surgery, and comments like the above only serve to enforce that stigma. I myself don’t see cosmetic surgery as a bad thing, I think it’s a fantastic opportunity, providing that you approach it with a healthy attitude and for the right reasons. However I just struggled to get past this worry about “what will other people think of me?” And “I don’t want to be thought of as ‘fake'”. That’s my issue, which I am dealing with, and once I have got past that, which i will, I will re-book my surgery and approach it from a positive place, just like the other women on this forum, who in my opinion are not ‘fake’ and certainly not silly, foolish people who have gone into this because they think men will like them more (which you have implied in your post). There are, of course, women who will choose to have this surgery for that reason and they are coming from a different place entirely but even so you would have absolutely no right to pas comment on that either as what people choose to do with their own body is their own business and their own choice. If you can’t use this forum in a positive, constructive way then you should probably leave and take your ugly comments elsewhere where I’m sure they might be more valued ( or perhaps not).

“Charlie” that was, of course, directed at you. I’m sure you worked that out though as you’re obviously a bright spark. Erm…

My boobies will be a month old on the 27th…and I think I love them more everyday! I don’t see them as fake..they are a part of me and they suit me a whole lot better than my old pair!! Best decision I ever made. People shouldn’t judge or be judged. The girls on this forum helped me from becoming a nervous wreck before my op and for that I’ll be forever grateful! Have a fantastic Christmas girls! 🙂 xx

I couldn’t give two hoots about a mans opinion on real or fake. It’s not about what they want! I joined this forum to get support from the other girls who have been through this surgery and they have been so nice answering any questions and I personally think this is not the place for a post like this. We are here because we want to do this and people shouldn’t be trying to pursuade people not to do so because quite frankly what does it matter! Everyone is entitled to an opinion but there is always a time and place.

i knew from the age.of 15that if i ever wanted to have boobs id have to go down this route as im same size as a 10year old up top. iv waited for 15 years to finally do it im really wishing id done it sooner. and quite frankly i don’t give a damn what “men” prefure its my body and my body and my body only! and i wanna wear grown up clothes for a change……

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