telling work? Started by: Isabel

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  • Isabel
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    Hi guys im in a relativly new job, the company is small and everyone is more like friends than colleagues.. but i was just wondering did any of you struggle telling work? did you at all? how did they react? i dont really know what to say when i book my time off for my ba in feb!

    xkay19
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    my office is the same its quite big but all more friendly than colleauges… i just booked my time off as holidays, most people know but i have only told the ppl i am good friends with..but offices are all the same .. word gets round. nobody has really mentioned it to me and work do not need to know why u are off! 🙂 just tell the people u are comfortable telling and im sure most people will find out either before..or after you have the op x

    sophie2514 1
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    Hiya chick. I work in a office aswell & were all good mates aswell as colleagues. I booked 2 weeks off work as normal holiday, and never told anyone who I work with that I was having my boobs done. I’m 4 weeks post op now, and no1 has clicked on, I guess it depends what size you were before and after. It helps aswell that the uniform I have 2 wear doesn’t make it obvious xx

    Isabel
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    Thanks for your replies! Yeah I’m thinking of only telling them if they ask… But I think mine will be quite noticeable! But I guess no ones really going to come out and just ask about your boobs are they! I don’t know if I should be more concerns of people saying things behind my back.. Has anyone looked down on you or changed there opinions on you because you’ve had a ba?

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    I’m not telling anyone, I’m in a fairly senior position in the city & people will judge, it’s the way of the world. I would rather people look at me & think ‘there’s something different about her’ or ‘she wears a lot of padded bras these days’ than tell them I’ve had cosmetic surgery. I want to scream it from the rooftops as I’m so excited but I need to keep quiet & keep it off Facebook & twitter too! X

    libteen 2
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    Me too! I booked 2 weeks off and didn’t say a word. I reckon it’s well obvious tho as I’ve put some ordinary pics of me on Facebook, as you do, and some people (cheeky) have commented on boob size so I’m sure people at work must be onto it! X

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    I’m a stay at home mum, but I’m still not telling anyone, the only people that do know is my husband and mum and dad. I haven’t even told my friends, probably just scared people judge me. X

    Chantal
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    I just told my work hey I’m getting surgery but didn’t say what. I only told my close friends about my BA. They’re your boobs babe be proud!!!

    Rachel -1
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    yea i work in an office too and we all know its full of gossips. nobody knows in my work either. they don’t need to know what your op is for, even if you tell them your having an op at all! xx

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