Anyone else sick to death of hearing ‘but you look fine as you are’

Evening ladies

I’m just here to rant really. I’ve told 4 people I’m going to have my boobs done this year and 3 of them instantly said ‘why bother, don’t waste the money they look fine as they are’ not even the slightest bit of support like ‘go for it hun you deserve to feel good’

I’m so glad my partner is supportive (even if he likes me as I am)

Rant over – much love x

My mum said that to me but ultimately my choice

I haven’t even told me mum yet… I’m in for a whole world of lecturing haha

I hear you. My best friend was trying to talk me out of it everyday up to the day of my surgery. She got in contact with my husband behind my back and called me superficial. I can’t even begin to describe how upsetting her reaction has been. I had my surgery two weeks ago and I am so happy! It’s amazing how everyone has an opinion when it comes to boobs!

I’ve always been told this and it drives me mad!! I’ve spent years worrying about what other people will think of me and how it’s selfish cause I have kids. I have finally realised it doesn’t make me any less of a mum and to stop worrying what people will think!

I was having mine either way so my mum knows better than to argue 😂
Everyone I know has said I don’t need one but it’s my choice at the end of the day only my friends that have been supportive.
Briggitte that must have been really upsetting for you 😔
My op is in 12days 👌👌

I completely agree ladies, this is something that I’m doing for myself, to make me feel good in my own skin.

OMG that’s awful I’m so sorry youre friend reacted that way, but I’m so glad you’re happy after your op xxx

Yeah well I’ve done it now and everyone’s like “oh they look great, You didn’t go a stupid size good.” 🙄 I’ve still had the odd “I don’t know why you’d do that to yourself.” Though.

People often think they’re being nice and don’t realise they’re being insensitive , I had a lot of that during my pregnancies so I’ve kinda got used to brushing it off now!

Ignore them, you’re doing it for you! It’s made a massive difference to my mental health, I actually have a bit of confidence again and we all deserve that!

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