intimacy after the op x how long will my bf suffer lol Started by: Anonymous

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  • Anonymous
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    So as exciting it is getting new boobs our bfs have to wait but how long.
    I know some of u may find this a tabboo question to ask.
    But forplay? Is that out of the question like…
    I heard you cant move you arms so (dunno how to say this without being crude)
    Surely foreplaying with my bf is out of the question but for how long?
    And sex is that out of the question toooo…?
    If so how long ill be paranoid for my boobs to be touched or squished lol
    And how long till the poor sod gets to actually ermmmm
    Play with the most expensive and antisipated upgrade to my body lol xc

    Sorry to offend anyone but i cant be the only one wanting to know x

    QueenC
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    I want to know the answer to this too!! well the sex part anyway i dont want to feel uncomfortable for too long. Recommended not to have sex for at lease 2 weeks due to prime healing time. 4 play though you cant plan as to how soon. You have had surgery you need to take a minute to chill and do little as possible to make sure you dont have complications long term like clots or bleeding etc…. a whole new view to safe sex! lol lol x

    Vicki
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    I had uplift and implants and I waited 3 days

    Anonymous
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    I love the honesty vicki x sone people wait 6 weeks

    But tbh i love being intimite dunno if i can wait that long.
    Glad im not the only one queenc xx

    Laura 12
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    I had it same night as my op and most days after lol. Now 3 weeks post op and sex life is back to norm if not better with my new boobies 🙂 didn’t do much for first 2 weeks tbh just lay there and let my partner do all the work lol.. you’ll be fine just take it easy and don’t forget to use extra contraception as the pill doesn’t have full effects when taking antibiotics at the same time xx

    Sarah
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    Sorry to sound really crude but does it mean he can’t go hard? I like it hard but hate the thought that by making my boobs jiggle he could do damage xx

    Anonymous
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    Aha exactly sarah thats what i wanna know xx how long has my poor man got to wait till he gets to grope me xx

    Laura 12
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    Would say go easy for 2 weeks if u can.. in all fairness i was telling him to be careful and start slow but we all know what happens when u get caught up in the moment lol just keep bra on however ugly they are 🙂 last night at 3 weeks post op was first time I’ve went bra less and went on top for first time since having them done. Ur body will tell u if ur over doing it xx

    Laura 12
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    I still don’t let him touch them just look lol! Too paranoid with my incisions still xx

    Zena
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    What about in terms of squishing and squeezing lol…I let my bf at 2 weeks post op and he had a little play and we were gentle but at 6 weeks post op can they be ‘man handled’ yet lol?

    Vicki
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    6 weeks they can be man handled roughly as long as you have had your checks to make sure you’re healed

    Zena
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    ^ thanks Vicki…had my check today but it got cancelled due to nurse off sick so hopefully next week I get the all clear and can look forward to all of that after treating them like egg shells for weeks lol.

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    I let my hubby at 2 weeks two he is soo looking forward to my 6 week check on Tuesday think I might run and hide then lol xxx he said last week there rubbish these new boobs you can’t even squeeze them properly lol xmhe obviously preferred my littleuns he could squeeze them lots lol xxx

    Jamie
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    Emma that’s exactly what my boyfriend has Said. He is hating them at the minute and casuing so many arguments. He prefered mine before.

    Anonymous
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    Tell him to get lost if he is starting arguments he should appreciate you and wait just like you have to wait to recover before you can get excited about them putting new bras and that on xx

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