Second thoughts!!

Are any of u girls giing through swcond thoughts??? I just keep researching BAs n im driving myself insaneee!!! One min im excited then im worried then i wana ho through with it tgen i dont!! Its crazy iv wanted this so long an now im like should i take the risk! The more i look at boobs the more i dnt like the look of the squareness hahaha its a nightmare! Iv now started worrying about blood clots and not comin rnd from the surgery! Please tell me im not the only one thats having all these thoughts!! xx

Dont panic if it’s something you have always wanted to do then go for it life is far to short, I wished I had surgery years ago, this is the best think I could have done for MYSELF. I created an album on my phone of boobs I like to take to my appointment I had loads on there and as you said the more I looked at them the more I didn’t like most of them. Then I would read horror stories of things going wrong and that would put me off but only a little bit because I wanted them done so much. So I stopped reading negative things, I read up on aftercare, girls tips on sleeping, food preparation, things that would help me and then I went through my phone and deleted boob pics only leaving 4 pictures I liked to show my pc. Not sure if that is any help but everyone goes through doubts it’s human nature 😉

@JEMMA I had a little wobble yesterday as my husband mentioned that the money could be used towards a house deposit and it is a lot of money, but it’s something I know I want and have wanted for a long time. It will make me happy and the husband as he had been buying sexy underwear from Ann summers. Xx

@JEMMA have you met Mr Traynor yet??? X

Hey @barron13 @sarahf… thanks for ur reassurance girls♡ It defo us something iv always wanted but i cant believe how i feel now its finally real.. I feel a bit selfish as i have beautiful children n im taking risks for myself! Yes i have seen mr traynor but am going bk on 14 sept for a 2nd consult before i book my date! Its tge squareness that im not liking with the boobs at the min i think i need to see some wen they are fully settled!! Oh i dno im just being silly! My partner just keeps saying Jem go for it uv wanted it forever but i just keep thinkin what if i hate them!! xxx

I was exactly the same as you…it took me 3 consultations and a year to pluck up the courage and book it…and then when i did they were saying it was a 2 month waiting list for the op which would of drove me insane as i kept changing my mind daily…luckily i got a cancellation 2 weeks later i had it done but up until the day i was like 1 day i wanted it, 1 day i didnt, 1 day i wanted a bigger size implant, 1 day smaller, couldnt decide if under or over coz i kept doing research everyday which changed my mind…goddd i drove myself mad haha x

@JEMMA what was he like?? And what size/profile implant did he recommend??. I’m gonna add you if that’s ok??.xxxx

I think it would be odd if we didn’t feel like this-? I also feel ‘selfish’ – the money could be used on an amazing family holiday! I ask myself daily how vain am I? After years of not feeling comfortable in my skin – it’s time I feel like me again! i have made my decision, I am comfortable with my surgeon, we have discussed the risks, likely outcome and trust he will do a good job- that’s all I focus on when having a wobble. I hope the 2nd consultation with mr traynor goes well. Do not feel guilty- don’t you deserve to feel happy in your own skin? X

Don’t feel guilty Hun you need to do what’s right for you! I felt exactly the same, im getting married next year and kept thinking this money could go a long way towards paying for it… but at the same time I wanted to feel comfortable in a wedding dress, and the ones I tried on just made me look even more flat chested! Try not to worry about the squareness it does die down, mine have changed so much even within the space of 10 days the ‘box’ look is starting to go thank god. If you’ve wanted it for ages go for it!! I’m so glad I did! xxx

Hey chicken ♡ @clare141 How are u feeling?? Honestly iv talked myself out going thru with it yday worrying about everything! Luckily my partner n friends keep reminding me how long iv wanted this! Glad to hear everything is settling for u hunny xxx

@sarahf Hey Sarah.. Dr Traynor is rele lovely.. he recommended 325s or 350s which i think mite bectoo big for me so im gna go bk on Sept 14th hunny just to be sure xx

Thank u chick @hetty.. I think all these thoughts just start wen it finally becomes real and u just constantly look at boobs and read anything and everything to do with BAs haha xxx

I’m feeling great thanks Hun, no more painkillers yay! Just feeling a little tight and very achy when I first wake up but that soon passes. I’ve been getting out and about for the past 5 days, can wash my hair now etc so definitely on the recovery road! Had my dressings taken off last Thursday and everything was perfect… can’t believe how neat my scars are as that was a worry of mine!

Don’t talk yourself out of it Hun (unless obviously you really didn’t want new boobs lol!) I honestly think you should go for it and trust in your surgeon. Decide roughly what look you want and then go back to see him before the op if you can to give him more of an idea of size… trust in what your surgeon says, as long as they know roughly what you want they’ll do their utmost to achieve that I’m sure Xxx

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